tourist visa help, advice, experience. thank you?
i am sponsoring someone to come from colombia to the u.s. I was told i have to write a letter of support in which it shows i am financially stable. i have a home, work, and some time deposits. i am trying to get a copy of an example so i know what to include and what not to. also do people from colombia need a sponsor to get a student visa, anyone know? anyone know of any other steps i need to take? thank you all. i really appriciate your help. oh yeah i am a u.s. citizen and 22 (in case anyone needs this info) the person i am sponsoring is just a friend. i am sorry i meant a tourist visa. i forgot to mwntion she is a student in a univ of colombia
Immigration - 3 Answers
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I'm not from Colombia but normally what the US consulate wants to see before they issue a tourist visa B1/B2 is that the person has ties to their home country and is financially capable of coming to the states to visit. If you can get those paper to him it will help in the process but he will need to show ties to Colombia, like a job, a rent contract, a house, family, etc. For studding it's a whole different thing, those are F visas and they need to be sponsored by the college he will be attending, normally you have to apply for the college from your home country and then when the have accepted you they will send you the necessary paperwork to file for an F visa. Check the links below:
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If you need a letter to show that you are financially stable, you do not write it yourself, you have to let the bank knows that and they should be able to give it to you because they should be familiar with those types of letters. And yes they do need a sponsor if that is the option they are taking, but you need to have some $$$$ in the bank. I know a good lawyer who can help you. So email if you need more info
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In the uscis site you will find all the information. Go to www.uscis.gov Generaly the letther is only and statment of your financial status, where you have to put your income , employer, starting date , among any data useful to demostrate you are in an stable position. Give then copy of your loan or house title, car title, earning statetments, bank account , saving and so on.
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Sunday, April 14, 2013
Sunday, April 7, 2013
how to make this girl like me? she's not atracted to me because I am american?
how to make this girl like me? she's not atracted to me because I am american?
I hang out with a British guy who has a very hot friend from Colombia here in London, she is a foreign exchange student like me. I asked her out one time and she said ok, during our night out and I told her that I found her very atractive and she told me she was flattered but she wasn't much into American men. She was more into European or guys from her country. I really can't stop thinking of her.........
Other - Family & Relationships - 18 Answers
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show her your wallet, asset, wealth.
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Maybe you can convince her otherwise with your charm and personality. Its worth a try!
3 :
Ok first and foremost you can't make someone like you...so move on or be her friend - but sorry you can't make someone like you.
4 :
You can't make anyone like you.....just have to be nice, not over-bearing, and hope for the best.........
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u cant make her like u....leave her alone n see if she wants to be with u...dont look desperate in front of her or else u might lose her
6 :
Apply glue to your entire body and roll around the barbershop floor for a bit. You'll look like a hairy Italian or Greek in a matter of minutes
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Act American and if she doesn't like you, then it's her loss. Seriously, you sound like a great guy and i bet alotta girls who respects you regardless of your nationality would love to go out with you.
8 :
thats funny cause my friend who went over being 16 said that girls over there love america guys.. maybe you should wear boots more country and more of a man
9 :
It sounds to me like maybe you might of came on too strong. Or simply that you may have said something that irked her the wrong way. There are other girls out there.
10 :
Respect her opinion and if your a good guy you may grow on her. She may just never be into you and thats something you will have to accept. There are many fish in the sea.
11 :
As someone who has dated both Nationalities, let me assure you not to worry love. It's her loss!
12 :
well you gotta understand why americans arn't as attractive as europian dudes - try and take her out on another date and just talk to her and see how much you have in common - if you do she might start liking you
13 :
Well, there may not be any way to get her to like you bro. She just isn't into American men, like alot of American men aren't into some girls because of where they come from. Just go up to her tommorow, or whenever you see her. And tell her, "Listen, I like you, you're beautiful, and I just needed to get those thoughts off my chest, I know were never be together, but I needed to tell you that, I hope we can still be friends, and I hope that we can still talk." Or something like that; that way she knows how you feel, and maybe she will feel MORE confterable in talking to you, and ya never know, you guys may go out. Although, however, I can't promise anything, just givin you some advice, hope all goes well.
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YOU CAN'T MAKE ANYBODY DO ANYTHING THEY DON'T WANT TO DO...SHE ISN'T INTERESTED, GET IT...MOVE ON...
15 :
whatever the reason is that she is not into american men, respect it and try to be a good friend and maybe she'll change her mind because she see's you and not the "American"
16 :
well then leave adn find someone else...
17 :
You must find the real reason why she think she couldn't like you back. If it's (1) she doesn't want american men or (2) just into men of her origin or continent. They're different from one another. If it's (1), you got to find the things she dislikes about american men. and find ways for her like to understand those things, if not prove her that she's wrong on what she believes. If it's (2), find reason what is it she likes in men of her origin / continent. Maybe she like certain qualities she thinks unique on them. The culture, how they respect women on their area. Find ways to somehow resemble those qualities. Or if it's not really u, hi-light special qualities that will insinuate the things she could miss if she concentrates on her preference. One more thing, also consider other reasons why she indirectly said she doesn't like you. She might just sort of challenging you. Or really don't want you at all. Research your subject if you're really interested on her.
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-Forget her, she will not change her likes/dislikes just for you. -Look further afield and you will find someone more deserving of your attention and affection.
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I hang out with a British guy who has a very hot friend from Colombia here in London, she is a foreign exchange student like me. I asked her out one time and she said ok, during our night out and I told her that I found her very atractive and she told me she was flattered but she wasn't much into American men. She was more into European or guys from her country. I really can't stop thinking of her.........
Other - Family & Relationships - 18 Answers
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1 :
show her your wallet, asset, wealth.
2 :
Maybe you can convince her otherwise with your charm and personality. Its worth a try!
3 :
Ok first and foremost you can't make someone like you...so move on or be her friend - but sorry you can't make someone like you.
4 :
You can't make anyone like you.....just have to be nice, not over-bearing, and hope for the best.........
5 :
u cant make her like u....leave her alone n see if she wants to be with u...dont look desperate in front of her or else u might lose her
6 :
Apply glue to your entire body and roll around the barbershop floor for a bit. You'll look like a hairy Italian or Greek in a matter of minutes
7 :
Act American and if she doesn't like you, then it's her loss. Seriously, you sound like a great guy and i bet alotta girls who respects you regardless of your nationality would love to go out with you.
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thats funny cause my friend who went over being 16 said that girls over there love america guys.. maybe you should wear boots more country and more of a man
9 :
It sounds to me like maybe you might of came on too strong. Or simply that you may have said something that irked her the wrong way. There are other girls out there.
10 :
Respect her opinion and if your a good guy you may grow on her. She may just never be into you and thats something you will have to accept. There are many fish in the sea.
11 :
As someone who has dated both Nationalities, let me assure you not to worry love. It's her loss!
12 :
well you gotta understand why americans arn't as attractive as europian dudes - try and take her out on another date and just talk to her and see how much you have in common - if you do she might start liking you
13 :
Well, there may not be any way to get her to like you bro. She just isn't into American men, like alot of American men aren't into some girls because of where they come from. Just go up to her tommorow, or whenever you see her. And tell her, "Listen, I like you, you're beautiful, and I just needed to get those thoughts off my chest, I know were never be together, but I needed to tell you that, I hope we can still be friends, and I hope that we can still talk." Or something like that; that way she knows how you feel, and maybe she will feel MORE confterable in talking to you, and ya never know, you guys may go out. Although, however, I can't promise anything, just givin you some advice, hope all goes well.
14 :
YOU CAN'T MAKE ANYBODY DO ANYTHING THEY DON'T WANT TO DO...SHE ISN'T INTERESTED, GET IT...MOVE ON...
15 :
whatever the reason is that she is not into american men, respect it and try to be a good friend and maybe she'll change her mind because she see's you and not the "American"
16 :
well then leave adn find someone else...
17 :
You must find the real reason why she think she couldn't like you back. If it's (1) she doesn't want american men or (2) just into men of her origin or continent. They're different from one another. If it's (1), you got to find the things she dislikes about american men. and find ways for her like to understand those things, if not prove her that she's wrong on what she believes. If it's (2), find reason what is it she likes in men of her origin / continent. Maybe she like certain qualities she thinks unique on them. The culture, how they respect women on their area. Find ways to somehow resemble those qualities. Or if it's not really u, hi-light special qualities that will insinuate the things she could miss if she concentrates on her preference. One more thing, also consider other reasons why she indirectly said she doesn't like you. She might just sort of challenging you. Or really don't want you at all. Research your subject if you're really interested on her.
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-Forget her, she will not change her likes/dislikes just for you. -Look further afield and you will find someone more deserving of your attention and affection.
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Monday, April 1, 2013
can you help me, am I a whore? please help me I am scared, confused, suicidal even!!!?
can you help me, am I a whore? please help me I am scared, confused, suicidal even!!!?
I am a 23 year old woman from Colombia........ I am a foreign exchange student in the US and my host family opened their arms to me. they are a married couple, typical all white suburbia family, they have a 4 year old son and the wife 29 y/o is a stay at home mom, the dad 30 y/o works in a law firm. I have been with them 4 months and two weeks after I got here I couldnt help but noticing that the husband would always look at me in a very different manner...... with like a lot of passion even when the wife was there one time the wife was in her mom's house and I got from school and he was in his towel, he just got outta the shower and he was so sexy after that time I felt for him and we've been having a secret relationship. I am sorry , I know is bad but I love him..... I never thought I would fall in love with a white guy...... I love his voice, his hands, his body, I love when we're together and he makes love to me and I dont care about anything, his blue eyes are my heaven. we have talked about his wife and he says he doesnt love her he just married her because it was his highschool sweetheart and tonight he proposed me to escape with him and go to canada and then to europe, he claims he has enough money what should I do?
Marriage & Divorce - 51 Answers
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go for it not your fault just make sure hes serious and thats what you want
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I really don't think either of you are being fair to wife or the son.
3 :
just go ...nothing else we could say , what done is done...
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Only you can answer that question, it will destroy his family though, keep that in mind before you do anything
5 :
Well I think he should divorce his wife....poor thing....and you can go be with him. But if he did that to his wife.....then he will do it to you too...It won't be all perfect....
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Yes you are a wh-re. Go back to Columbia. Don't be a homewrecking sl-t.
7 :
Get sober! Quite down there in the peanut gallery! I have NEVER met a whore who was not addicted to drugs or alcohol! Believe me all, I know plenty of whores. It comes with the job. Anyway...back to you... You need to get into a 12 step program, with a sponsor, and get sober! You whole life hinges on your sobriety!
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retard
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OMGG!!! dont run away with him thats ridculous, he has a wife that thinks he loves her and a baby boy, My ada left witha nother women and it broke my heart!!!! and my mum wouldnt stop crying! please please dont hurt the women and her baby BOY!!! PLEASE! dont doo it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
10 :
You better go with him... you two have already screwed up the marriage. However, don't be surprised if he leaves you to be with his wife again.. or another woman. Men like this are FULL of empty promises.. no matter HOW much you think they love you.
11 :
Suicidal? Don't worry, I think the wife will kill you. Can't wait for Karma!
12 :
He is going to screw you over the way he has screwed his wife over, we have a little thing called KARMA and she is going to be gunning for you. End the relationship and save yourself some grief down the road. Or hey wasn't suicide a option?
13 :
Get out of there. that is your host ftamily... What were you thinking? He has a wife and 4 year old son? And you want to ruin his wife and sons life? Your are not a whore but obviously very selfish... If this man did not love his wife and wanted to leave he would of left with or without you, trust me my father did the same. And think about this, If he was having an affair with you whilst with a wife and child, what do you think he wont do the same to you? come on girl your living in a dream world.
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Dummy....his wife is his LOVE...his high school sweetheart...you, my dear, are just a piece of @ss.
15 :
This woman has opened her home to you and you repay her by sleeping with her husband?? I'm not sure how you do it in COLOMBIA, but that makes you both adulterers. He's a jerk who should have never come on to you - but you should have turned him down. They have a child - and the two of you are just gonna run off. Where does that leave his 4 yr old son - and his poor wife? If he cheated on her - he'll cheat on you...GUARANTEED. You'll be as replaceable as she is! More than likely, he'll never leave his wife, not as long as the both of you are there putting out!
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Technically no, but what if you were the other woman. Karmas a bitch! I think you did wrong!
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First, you are not a whore. You just feel in love with a married man. It happens. Second, if doesn't love his wife, then why is he still with her? If you hadn't came along would he still want to leave or is he using you as an excuse to get out? Why Canada and Europe? Why can't he just leave his wife and stay where he is? What about his son and job? Think about all this before you do anything. Don't let him fill your head with empty promises.
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Sounds like you've already made your mind up! Be very aware of the repercussion's that WILL occur! He will be found out, and there will be 'fireworks', that I can guarantee you!
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no way hun. don't go to canada or europe or anywhere too far away, because that's just bad news, and if he's still married to his wife, tell him that you two need to keep your cool while you're there and he's still married. you have to put yourself in his wife's situation, and think about what would happen if she found out? if it was you i'm sure you would just be devastated. he's also way too old for you, i mean i know that alot of women are attracted to older men, but he's just too far out there. who knows, this could even be a life and death situation if his wife found out, and you don't know his whole life story either. be careful.
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Why not go all the way, you already cheated with him.
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You should be scared. What don't you start by making good decision.
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you dont have to do anything, it will all blow up soon enough..you have to remember,the wife is going to get everything....you two jackasses wrecked a home...high school sweet hearts, my butt.its a comfort zone,and he is out of bounds
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Call your parents and tell them what happened and that you need to come home. Trust me..this is lust NOT love. Get out of the situation before any more harm is done.
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You are not a whore stuff like this happens but the main thing you need to remeber if he cheated on his wife he will probably cheat on you too.
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He has fallen out of love with her and has feelings for you. It would be wise to wait for his other child to come home from Colombia or where ever this child is at, since you say your a foreign exchange student, and then you go home and forget the whole mess. I don't think your a whore but you need better judgment, what a mess to be involved in especially since your in a foreign country. Its all up to you really, what do you want to do and can you live with the consequences?
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To answer your question; Yes! Yes, you are. Get out of that house, you home wrecker. Either go back to your country or find somewhere else to live. And let it not be another family you can ruin.
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he will always be a part of her life they have a child together just rember that he did it to her he will do it to you.... good luck your going to need it cause if i was his wife i would hunt you down like a dog....
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its not easy being in love with someone. especially when you feel that passion between the two of you. there is nothing wrong with you. you are following your heart. He needs to make a decision- you or his wife - he needs to tell her asap - and then live his life with you - make sure he is serious - if he really is ...hed tell his wife right away and chose you. I know its not fair - but its better to be honest...trust me he needs to be open and honest with his wife - this way he would get the problem off his shoulder and be fair to everyone
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First, don't kill yourself. You made a mistake falling in love with a married man. You might want to leave that situation. If this was a single man, it wouldn't be a problem. He's the one that cheated on his wife, but you're not making it any easier. Leave as soon as you can.
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Feel ashamed and go home and forget about him.
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i believe you should move out and move on.its not fair to his wife and she also took you in.if you did leave with him,whoes to say in a year or two that he want do the same to you.dont let him use you as a scapegoat to get out of his mairrage.there is a real man out there that will love you/protect you/and give you the world if he could and never cheat on you.
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Love is strong girl butif you go away with him he is just going to do the same to you what he did to his wife Then you'll be hurt What goes around comes around Yes you will always love him but you have tobe strong and find a man who love you and not keep you as a side line chick
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he leave u too once he has had enough of u. high school sweetheart or not he married her cuz he loved her. he can say he loves u know but chances are in a few years he'll do the same to u.
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Firstly ..tell yourself you are not a whore...because you are not.......think about it, are you charging him for the sex...? Also tell yourself he is a liar because he is....he tells you he doesnt love his wife to make you think you have a chance with him...to keep you there to have sex with....dont be taken in by this...get out of there real quick...and take the good feelings of how you felt with you...they are yours to keep...throw out the bad ones... Dont put yourself down....the nice feelings and pleasure you have felt are not bad things...only the way you think about them can make it bad... you are not a bad person because you had sex with a married man....he is in a position of power here...its his house and he is taking advantage of you.... Dont let this experience suck you into thinking its the real deal....he is not doing you any favours by having sex with you....and you are not doing yourself any favours by thinking he is or by continuing it, or by believing anything he is telling you....he is lying to his wife, family, friends and everyone around him by having sex with you....dont be fooled... leave...
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You call yourself a 23yr old woman..haha women like you are worth sh!t to me..scared confused and even suicidal...awwwwee... yeah do society a favor!! Hope she finds out and take her asss hole husband for what is worth..you know what? ..then you probably be the one supporting him him..B/C he won't have a damn dime to support you! What goes around goes around and come back and bite you right on the assssssss...I hope you and him pay for what you both are doing...you lucky you aren't on my territory..enough said! grrrrrrrrr
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yes that is wrong think about would u want that done to u plus ur still young and fresh to da country think about it if u didnt meet them would he have stayed with his wife then again he probably would of meet someone else see u have to be careful cause he knows ur situation and u seem volunerable to him u have to be strong and yes i wouldnt call u a whore but how do u feel inside apparently u dont feel whole cuz u wouldnt ? it wake up boo boo this is america
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once a cheater always a cheater. as soon as something younger and better comes along, he'll leave you that is if he even leaves his wife.
38 :
To answer your original question: Yes, you are a whore. You are a home wrecker and thanks to you his kids will not have a dad, anymore. Oh, yeah, and he'll leave you, too, as soon as another younger piece comes around. Congratulations.
39 :
you only live once honey. Are you SURE your in love with him??? NOT lust???
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yeah, you're a whore. you knew he was married and you f*cked him anyway. bad bad girl.
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You have fallen for the oldest line in the book ( I DON'T LOVE MY WIFE) Isn't it funny how every single husband uses the same line and it's still working on dumb little girls like you. Do you really think he is going to run off with you and leave everything he loves. The only thing he loves about you is the fact that your different and younger then his wife.Make no mistake you will wear off and when you do he will make sure you are out of his house faster then you can open your legs.Your mother would be so ashamed if she knew what you were doing to this family who took you in. I hope someday someone like you comes into your life and sleeps with your husband then and only then will you know the kind of heart break you are going to cause his poor wife who did nothing to you but be your friend.With friends like you who needs enemies.
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his eyes r ur heaven...but his manhood is sending u to hell
43 :
Something built on a lie will never last
44 :
Sweetie, you should get the heck out of there as soon as possible. It's a bad situation if the mom finds out what's going on. If you really love him and want to leave with him then move out and let him deal with his situation. After that you can be with him.
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wow. he'll cheat on you eventually. and what about his son? do either of you think of what is best for him? you deserve eachother, for sure, but wife and son deserve so much better.
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No, you are not a wh*re but you are a naughty naughty girl.
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If I were you, I would definitely get out of there away from him and that situation! He is a total jerk for treating his wife and son that way. He would probably do the same to you eventually! You don't really know this guy and are just loving him because of the sex. Sex is an instant way of intimacy between two people, but should never be the only factor in deciding to be with someone! How well does he know you? Does he know all of your favorite things? Does he know what you want to do with your future? Does he know what makes you mad? He probably doesn't and doesn't care either. He just likes the sex. He married his wife for a reason, not because she was his high school sweetheart but because he loved her. He's probably gotten in a rut and then you come along and he's taken advantage of the situation and of you. You need to take care of yourself and find someone who is going to be your best friend to be in love with, not a married guy who is doing you behind his wife's back! Open your eyes!!!!
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You should pack your bags and leave. wtf is this for real?
49 :
I think this a terrible situation for the wife. How is she going to feel when her husband walks out on her and their son? Does she love him? If so she will be devestated. And is he going to provide for them? You cannot help falling in love, but if you are going to run off with this man, I hope that he will have the decency not to leave his wife and child high and dry without anything. And I hope also that he is going to really commit himself to you and not dump you when he tires of you. I hope that he really does love you as much as you love him.
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yes u are.. sad but true.. but u can return and fix it. leave him , he has a family he has children he has a wife who has only helped to you.just think if you were that woman , what would you think about tht ??.
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I am a 23 year old woman from Colombia........ I am a foreign exchange student in the US and my host family opened their arms to me. they are a married couple, typical all white suburbia family, they have a 4 year old son and the wife 29 y/o is a stay at home mom, the dad 30 y/o works in a law firm. I have been with them 4 months and two weeks after I got here I couldnt help but noticing that the husband would always look at me in a very different manner...... with like a lot of passion even when the wife was there one time the wife was in her mom's house and I got from school and he was in his towel, he just got outta the shower and he was so sexy after that time I felt for him and we've been having a secret relationship. I am sorry , I know is bad but I love him..... I never thought I would fall in love with a white guy...... I love his voice, his hands, his body, I love when we're together and he makes love to me and I dont care about anything, his blue eyes are my heaven. we have talked about his wife and he says he doesnt love her he just married her because it was his highschool sweetheart and tonight he proposed me to escape with him and go to canada and then to europe, he claims he has enough money what should I do?
Marriage & Divorce - 51 Answers
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1 :
go for it not your fault just make sure hes serious and thats what you want
2 :
I really don't think either of you are being fair to wife or the son.
3 :
just go ...nothing else we could say , what done is done...
4 :
Only you can answer that question, it will destroy his family though, keep that in mind before you do anything
5 :
Well I think he should divorce his wife....poor thing....and you can go be with him. But if he did that to his wife.....then he will do it to you too...It won't be all perfect....
6 :
Yes you are a wh-re. Go back to Columbia. Don't be a homewrecking sl-t.
7 :
Get sober! Quite down there in the peanut gallery! I have NEVER met a whore who was not addicted to drugs or alcohol! Believe me all, I know plenty of whores. It comes with the job. Anyway...back to you... You need to get into a 12 step program, with a sponsor, and get sober! You whole life hinges on your sobriety!
8 :
retard
9 :
OMGG!!! dont run away with him thats ridculous, he has a wife that thinks he loves her and a baby boy, My ada left witha nother women and it broke my heart!!!! and my mum wouldnt stop crying! please please dont hurt the women and her baby BOY!!! PLEASE! dont doo it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
10 :
You better go with him... you two have already screwed up the marriage. However, don't be surprised if he leaves you to be with his wife again.. or another woman. Men like this are FULL of empty promises.. no matter HOW much you think they love you.
11 :
Suicidal? Don't worry, I think the wife will kill you. Can't wait for Karma!
12 :
He is going to screw you over the way he has screwed his wife over, we have a little thing called KARMA and she is going to be gunning for you. End the relationship and save yourself some grief down the road. Or hey wasn't suicide a option?
13 :
Get out of there. that is your host ftamily... What were you thinking? He has a wife and 4 year old son? And you want to ruin his wife and sons life? Your are not a whore but obviously very selfish... If this man did not love his wife and wanted to leave he would of left with or without you, trust me my father did the same. And think about this, If he was having an affair with you whilst with a wife and child, what do you think he wont do the same to you? come on girl your living in a dream world.
14 :
Dummy....his wife is his LOVE...his high school sweetheart...you, my dear, are just a piece of @ss.
15 :
This woman has opened her home to you and you repay her by sleeping with her husband?? I'm not sure how you do it in COLOMBIA, but that makes you both adulterers. He's a jerk who should have never come on to you - but you should have turned him down. They have a child - and the two of you are just gonna run off. Where does that leave his 4 yr old son - and his poor wife? If he cheated on her - he'll cheat on you...GUARANTEED. You'll be as replaceable as she is! More than likely, he'll never leave his wife, not as long as the both of you are there putting out!
16 :
Technically no, but what if you were the other woman. Karmas a bitch! I think you did wrong!
17 :
First, you are not a whore. You just feel in love with a married man. It happens. Second, if doesn't love his wife, then why is he still with her? If you hadn't came along would he still want to leave or is he using you as an excuse to get out? Why Canada and Europe? Why can't he just leave his wife and stay where he is? What about his son and job? Think about all this before you do anything. Don't let him fill your head with empty promises.
18 :
Sounds like you've already made your mind up! Be very aware of the repercussion's that WILL occur! He will be found out, and there will be 'fireworks', that I can guarantee you!
19 :
no way hun. don't go to canada or europe or anywhere too far away, because that's just bad news, and if he's still married to his wife, tell him that you two need to keep your cool while you're there and he's still married. you have to put yourself in his wife's situation, and think about what would happen if she found out? if it was you i'm sure you would just be devastated. he's also way too old for you, i mean i know that alot of women are attracted to older men, but he's just too far out there. who knows, this could even be a life and death situation if his wife found out, and you don't know his whole life story either. be careful.
20 :
Why not go all the way, you already cheated with him.
21 :
You should be scared. What don't you start by making good decision.
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you dont have to do anything, it will all blow up soon enough..you have to remember,the wife is going to get everything....you two jackasses wrecked a home...high school sweet hearts, my butt.its a comfort zone,and he is out of bounds
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Call your parents and tell them what happened and that you need to come home. Trust me..this is lust NOT love. Get out of the situation before any more harm is done.
24 :
You are not a whore stuff like this happens but the main thing you need to remeber if he cheated on his wife he will probably cheat on you too.
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He has fallen out of love with her and has feelings for you. It would be wise to wait for his other child to come home from Colombia or where ever this child is at, since you say your a foreign exchange student, and then you go home and forget the whole mess. I don't think your a whore but you need better judgment, what a mess to be involved in especially since your in a foreign country. Its all up to you really, what do you want to do and can you live with the consequences?
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To answer your question; Yes! Yes, you are. Get out of that house, you home wrecker. Either go back to your country or find somewhere else to live. And let it not be another family you can ruin.
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he will always be a part of her life they have a child together just rember that he did it to her he will do it to you.... good luck your going to need it cause if i was his wife i would hunt you down like a dog....
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its not easy being in love with someone. especially when you feel that passion between the two of you. there is nothing wrong with you. you are following your heart. He needs to make a decision- you or his wife - he needs to tell her asap - and then live his life with you - make sure he is serious - if he really is ...hed tell his wife right away and chose you. I know its not fair - but its better to be honest...trust me he needs to be open and honest with his wife - this way he would get the problem off his shoulder and be fair to everyone
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First, don't kill yourself. You made a mistake falling in love with a married man. You might want to leave that situation. If this was a single man, it wouldn't be a problem. He's the one that cheated on his wife, but you're not making it any easier. Leave as soon as you can.
30 :
Feel ashamed and go home and forget about him.
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i believe you should move out and move on.its not fair to his wife and she also took you in.if you did leave with him,whoes to say in a year or two that he want do the same to you.dont let him use you as a scapegoat to get out of his mairrage.there is a real man out there that will love you/protect you/and give you the world if he could and never cheat on you.
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Love is strong girl butif you go away with him he is just going to do the same to you what he did to his wife Then you'll be hurt What goes around comes around Yes you will always love him but you have tobe strong and find a man who love you and not keep you as a side line chick
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he leave u too once he has had enough of u. high school sweetheart or not he married her cuz he loved her. he can say he loves u know but chances are in a few years he'll do the same to u.
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Firstly ..tell yourself you are not a whore...because you are not.......think about it, are you charging him for the sex...? Also tell yourself he is a liar because he is....he tells you he doesnt love his wife to make you think you have a chance with him...to keep you there to have sex with....dont be taken in by this...get out of there real quick...and take the good feelings of how you felt with you...they are yours to keep...throw out the bad ones... Dont put yourself down....the nice feelings and pleasure you have felt are not bad things...only the way you think about them can make it bad... you are not a bad person because you had sex with a married man....he is in a position of power here...its his house and he is taking advantage of you.... Dont let this experience suck you into thinking its the real deal....he is not doing you any favours by having sex with you....and you are not doing yourself any favours by thinking he is or by continuing it, or by believing anything he is telling you....he is lying to his wife, family, friends and everyone around him by having sex with you....dont be fooled... leave...
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You call yourself a 23yr old woman..haha women like you are worth sh!t to me..scared confused and even suicidal...awwwwee... yeah do society a favor!! Hope she finds out and take her asss hole husband for what is worth..you know what? ..then you probably be the one supporting him him..B/C he won't have a damn dime to support you! What goes around goes around and come back and bite you right on the assssssss...I hope you and him pay for what you both are doing...you lucky you aren't on my territory..enough said! grrrrrrrrr
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yes that is wrong think about would u want that done to u plus ur still young and fresh to da country think about it if u didnt meet them would he have stayed with his wife then again he probably would of meet someone else see u have to be careful cause he knows ur situation and u seem volunerable to him u have to be strong and yes i wouldnt call u a whore but how do u feel inside apparently u dont feel whole cuz u wouldnt ? it wake up boo boo this is america
37 :
once a cheater always a cheater. as soon as something younger and better comes along, he'll leave you that is if he even leaves his wife.
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To answer your original question: Yes, you are a whore. You are a home wrecker and thanks to you his kids will not have a dad, anymore. Oh, yeah, and he'll leave you, too, as soon as another younger piece comes around. Congratulations.
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you only live once honey. Are you SURE your in love with him??? NOT lust???
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yeah, you're a whore. you knew he was married and you f*cked him anyway. bad bad girl.
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You have fallen for the oldest line in the book ( I DON'T LOVE MY WIFE) Isn't it funny how every single husband uses the same line and it's still working on dumb little girls like you. Do you really think he is going to run off with you and leave everything he loves. The only thing he loves about you is the fact that your different and younger then his wife.Make no mistake you will wear off and when you do he will make sure you are out of his house faster then you can open your legs.Your mother would be so ashamed if she knew what you were doing to this family who took you in. I hope someday someone like you comes into your life and sleeps with your husband then and only then will you know the kind of heart break you are going to cause his poor wife who did nothing to you but be your friend.With friends like you who needs enemies.
42 :
his eyes r ur heaven...but his manhood is sending u to hell
43 :
Something built on a lie will never last
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Sweetie, you should get the heck out of there as soon as possible. It's a bad situation if the mom finds out what's going on. If you really love him and want to leave with him then move out and let him deal with his situation. After that you can be with him.
45 :
wow. he'll cheat on you eventually. and what about his son? do either of you think of what is best for him? you deserve eachother, for sure, but wife and son deserve so much better.
46 :
No, you are not a wh*re but you are a naughty naughty girl.
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If I were you, I would definitely get out of there away from him and that situation! He is a total jerk for treating his wife and son that way. He would probably do the same to you eventually! You don't really know this guy and are just loving him because of the sex. Sex is an instant way of intimacy between two people, but should never be the only factor in deciding to be with someone! How well does he know you? Does he know all of your favorite things? Does he know what you want to do with your future? Does he know what makes you mad? He probably doesn't and doesn't care either. He just likes the sex. He married his wife for a reason, not because she was his high school sweetheart but because he loved her. He's probably gotten in a rut and then you come along and he's taken advantage of the situation and of you. You need to take care of yourself and find someone who is going to be your best friend to be in love with, not a married guy who is doing you behind his wife's back! Open your eyes!!!!
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You should pack your bags and leave. wtf is this for real?
49 :
I think this a terrible situation for the wife. How is she going to feel when her husband walks out on her and their son? Does she love him? If so she will be devestated. And is he going to provide for them? You cannot help falling in love, but if you are going to run off with this man, I hope that he will have the decency not to leave his wife and child high and dry without anything. And I hope also that he is going to really commit himself to you and not dump you when he tires of you. I hope that he really does love you as much as you love him.
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yes u are.. sad but true.. but u can return and fix it. leave him , he has a family he has children he has a wife who has only helped to you.just think if you were that woman , what would you think about tht ??.
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Thursday, March 28, 2013
should I run away with a married man?
should I run away with a married man?
I am a 23 year old woman from Colombia........ I am a foreign exchange student in the US and my host family opened their arms to me. they are a married couple, typical all white suburbia family, they have a 4 year old son and the wife 29 y/o is a stay at home mom, the dad 30 y/o works in a law firm. I have been with them 4 months and two weeks after I got here I couldnt help but noticing that the husband would always look at me in a very different manner...... with like a lot of passion even when the wife was there one time the wife was in her mom's house and I got from school and he was in his towel, he just got outta the shower and he was so sexy after that time I felt for him and we've been having a secret relationship. I am sorry , I know is bad but I love him..... I never thought I would fall in love with a white guy...... I love his voice, his hands, his body, I love when we're together and he makes love to me and I dont care about anything, his blue eyes are my heaven. we've talked about his wife and he claims she is like a boring stepford wife, just his highschool sweetheart and with me he found love and he found hmiself he wants me to run away with him tonight to canada and then to europe or colombia he claims he has enough money and is waiting for me in a few hours to pick me up what should i do? i cant seem to think right
Singles & Dating - 19 Answers
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1 :
if u wanna... go ahead! :)
2 :
If he cheated on her he will cheat on you.
3 :
Get away from this loser asap. The way he is treating his wife will one day be the way he treats you, if you even make it as far as around the corner with him.
4 :
dont do it itll ruin both your lives
5 :
Dont you ever heard about a married man that no matter what happens, they will go back to their wife in the end. If the husband can leave the wife because of you, im not surprise one fine day he will leave you and go back to his wife.... So you are at the losing side... WAKE UP GIRL!!!!!
6 :
I won't get into the morality of the situation. I do know that men rarely leave their wives in this kind of situation. However, if he does, what does that say about him? Will you someday be boring to him? Will he just dump you out of the blue and run off with someone else? Would you be giving up all your studies to run off with him? What would that do to your legal status in the US? If things fell apart with him what would you stand to lose? Would he want to marry you and if he did, how long would that take?
7 :
You are NUTS to go on with this relationship that is based only on sexual instincts. Find someone of your own, and do not contribute to the breakup of a marriage.
8 :
Thats terrible. Why would you want to be the cause of this young child's broken home? And if he leaves his wife for you, what makes you think he won't leave you for someone else? I think you should be a good human being and leave this man alone.
9 :
come to your damn sense that man just want to lay down with you when he can he's just talking he not ging to leave his wife for you girl stop
10 :
just remember people get killed runnin' off with other people's husbands & ONCE A CHEATER, ALWAYS A CHEATER.....just ask Maury Povich. :)
11 :
you know whats the right thing to do! dont go! unless you are prepared to be a second wife to a guy who hasnt divorced his wife yet. you are the other woman. it might sound all too dreamy but i think that he is just using you. i dont think this kind of man can leave their wife that they have such a history being high school sweethearts.
12 :
You should go home! If he loves you, he would tell his wife instead of running away. Right now he sees you as an exotic piece of (you know what). You are worth much more than that. He is 30 years old trying to ruin your life.
13 :
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!! like i already sed dnt do hat! he has a fkn baby boy, dnt break his heart, your so ridiculous, god will get revenge on you!!!.. if u do run away, he has a wife that thinks he loves her, dnt beak their family apart! dont do it!!
14 :
Get the hell outta my country!! Do you have any idea what you are about to let him do to his child and wife? Your a selfish forigner and dont belong here. ITs all just sex with this guy...he doesnt love you.
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No, no, no. If this man could cheat on his high school sweetheart, who apparently he's been with for at least 12 years, what makes you think he couldn't cheat on you? If he can't respect his wife, wedding vows, and family, he will have no respect for you. And why would he leave behind his son? Why would you want to play second fiddle to anyone? This woman and man took you in their home to help you out, and you betrayed her trust. She may never want to trust you again. Just because he helped you out, you don't owe him anything. And most likely, if he does run away with you, he will come back to his wife. He does love her to some extent, otherwise they wouldn't have been together this long. My b/f did something like that to me once...right after we broke up,he went to TX to live with a 44 year old woman with four kids to make me jealous. Guess where he is now. And I don't doubt this man will do the same thing. Even if he did leave with you, just remember that a stray will always find his way home. I'm not trying to make you mad or tell you what to do, but it will save you alot of pain, heartache, and drama in the long run. There IS a man out there who will drive you crazy and will be madly in love with you. And I gaurentee that man for you isn't married.
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Once a cheater, always a cheater. he's cheating on his WIFE for you. if you two get really serious, what makes you think he won't do that to you. what if he then finds your boring? you don't want to be with a cheater, he'll break your heart. i know it may all seem romantic now, but you will get hurt.
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NOTE TO SELF: NEVER TAKE IN A FOREIGN EXCHANGE STUDENT!!! If he is cheating on her with you, he WILL cheat on you later when he gets bored, and he WILL, no matter how hot you think you are. By the way, I think you are a pathetic homewrecker. Go back where you came from.
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baby gurl ur setting ur self up to get hurt the relationship stared on dert. he no he was rong from the jump..an wen you found out adout her you should have let him go..all i cant say is you no rite from rong ..do he have kids?
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your such a whore, he has a son for goodness sake
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I am a 23 year old woman from Colombia........ I am a foreign exchange student in the US and my host family opened their arms to me. they are a married couple, typical all white suburbia family, they have a 4 year old son and the wife 29 y/o is a stay at home mom, the dad 30 y/o works in a law firm. I have been with them 4 months and two weeks after I got here I couldnt help but noticing that the husband would always look at me in a very different manner...... with like a lot of passion even when the wife was there one time the wife was in her mom's house and I got from school and he was in his towel, he just got outta the shower and he was so sexy after that time I felt for him and we've been having a secret relationship. I am sorry , I know is bad but I love him..... I never thought I would fall in love with a white guy...... I love his voice, his hands, his body, I love when we're together and he makes love to me and I dont care about anything, his blue eyes are my heaven. we've talked about his wife and he claims she is like a boring stepford wife, just his highschool sweetheart and with me he found love and he found hmiself he wants me to run away with him tonight to canada and then to europe or colombia he claims he has enough money and is waiting for me in a few hours to pick me up what should i do? i cant seem to think right
Singles & Dating - 19 Answers
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1 :
if u wanna... go ahead! :)
2 :
If he cheated on her he will cheat on you.
3 :
Get away from this loser asap. The way he is treating his wife will one day be the way he treats you, if you even make it as far as around the corner with him.
4 :
dont do it itll ruin both your lives
5 :
Dont you ever heard about a married man that no matter what happens, they will go back to their wife in the end. If the husband can leave the wife because of you, im not surprise one fine day he will leave you and go back to his wife.... So you are at the losing side... WAKE UP GIRL!!!!!
6 :
I won't get into the morality of the situation. I do know that men rarely leave their wives in this kind of situation. However, if he does, what does that say about him? Will you someday be boring to him? Will he just dump you out of the blue and run off with someone else? Would you be giving up all your studies to run off with him? What would that do to your legal status in the US? If things fell apart with him what would you stand to lose? Would he want to marry you and if he did, how long would that take?
7 :
You are NUTS to go on with this relationship that is based only on sexual instincts. Find someone of your own, and do not contribute to the breakup of a marriage.
8 :
Thats terrible. Why would you want to be the cause of this young child's broken home? And if he leaves his wife for you, what makes you think he won't leave you for someone else? I think you should be a good human being and leave this man alone.
9 :
come to your damn sense that man just want to lay down with you when he can he's just talking he not ging to leave his wife for you girl stop
10 :
just remember people get killed runnin' off with other people's husbands & ONCE A CHEATER, ALWAYS A CHEATER.....just ask Maury Povich. :)
11 :
you know whats the right thing to do! dont go! unless you are prepared to be a second wife to a guy who hasnt divorced his wife yet. you are the other woman. it might sound all too dreamy but i think that he is just using you. i dont think this kind of man can leave their wife that they have such a history being high school sweethearts.
12 :
You should go home! If he loves you, he would tell his wife instead of running away. Right now he sees you as an exotic piece of (you know what). You are worth much more than that. He is 30 years old trying to ruin your life.
13 :
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!! like i already sed dnt do hat! he has a fkn baby boy, dnt break his heart, your so ridiculous, god will get revenge on you!!!.. if u do run away, he has a wife that thinks he loves her, dnt beak their family apart! dont do it!!
14 :
Get the hell outta my country!! Do you have any idea what you are about to let him do to his child and wife? Your a selfish forigner and dont belong here. ITs all just sex with this guy...he doesnt love you.
15 :
No, no, no. If this man could cheat on his high school sweetheart, who apparently he's been with for at least 12 years, what makes you think he couldn't cheat on you? If he can't respect his wife, wedding vows, and family, he will have no respect for you. And why would he leave behind his son? Why would you want to play second fiddle to anyone? This woman and man took you in their home to help you out, and you betrayed her trust. She may never want to trust you again. Just because he helped you out, you don't owe him anything. And most likely, if he does run away with you, he will come back to his wife. He does love her to some extent, otherwise they wouldn't have been together this long. My b/f did something like that to me once...right after we broke up,he went to TX to live with a 44 year old woman with four kids to make me jealous. Guess where he is now. And I don't doubt this man will do the same thing. Even if he did leave with you, just remember that a stray will always find his way home. I'm not trying to make you mad or tell you what to do, but it will save you alot of pain, heartache, and drama in the long run. There IS a man out there who will drive you crazy and will be madly in love with you. And I gaurentee that man for you isn't married.
16 :
Once a cheater, always a cheater. he's cheating on his WIFE for you. if you two get really serious, what makes you think he won't do that to you. what if he then finds your boring? you don't want to be with a cheater, he'll break your heart. i know it may all seem romantic now, but you will get hurt.
17 :
NOTE TO SELF: NEVER TAKE IN A FOREIGN EXCHANGE STUDENT!!! If he is cheating on her with you, he WILL cheat on you later when he gets bored, and he WILL, no matter how hot you think you are. By the way, I think you are a pathetic homewrecker. Go back where you came from.
18 :
baby gurl ur setting ur self up to get hurt the relationship stared on dert. he no he was rong from the jump..an wen you found out adout her you should have let him go..all i cant say is you no rite from rong ..do he have kids?
19 :
your such a whore, he has a son for goodness sake
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Thursday, March 14, 2013
Sure Obama is an African-American, but is he a US citizen, and is he a "natural born citizen"?
Sure Obama is an African-American, but is he a US citizen, and is he a "natural born citizen"?
Sure Obama is an African-American, but is he a US citizen, and is he a "natural born citizen"? Obama may be an African, not just an African-American. His mom was an American and whoever his Dad was was either African or African-American so Obama sure is an African-American. Is Obama an African? Obama reasonably claims that his Dad was Barack Obama, Sr. of Kenya. If that is so he would also be African. Just as a child of an American born abroad is an American. Why is Obama's claim of who his Dad reasonable? Because that is what official divorce documents say. That is what his mom and grandparents -- and maybe even Barack Sr. told him. Yet the mom was a sexual libertine born to parents whom themselves are rumored to have been sexual libertines. It may be that the father is someone else. Perhaps Frank Davis, the bisexual marxist author of "Black Sex Rebel." At his mom's suggestion Obama went to be mentored by Frank Davis while Obama was in high school. There's some suggestion that Davis may be Obama's father because of similar ear lobe structure, that structure seems also to suggest Barack Obama Sr. from being the father, since the ear structures are so different. (There's also rumors that Malcolm X is Obama's Dad, and their facial structure is similar but there's no evidence of any proximity at all between Obama'a mom and Malcolm X.) There's no question as to who him mom is though. So Obama is an American, and maybe African. Even if his Dad were Davis (or Malcolm X, or some unknown Cuban -- which is an even less substantial rumor) Obama would still be considered African-American. Is Obama a US citizen? At this time you do not have to produce a birth certificate to be President. Obama is the proof. He did not. A President should have to show beyond any reasonable doubt that he is a "natural born citizen" because the Constitution requires it, but NO OFFICIAL IN AUTHORITY has asked for that proof. And despite that Obama's mom was a US citizen, it may be that he is not. Why? Three ways. One is that the US statute law in effect at his birth had a requirement that to gain US citizenship the US citizen parent had to live a certain number of years in the US after being 18. Obama's mom did not -- she traveled and lived abroad. It's an arguable circumstance, but it seems to me based on the law as I have seen it makes Obama not a citizen. The second is that Obama lost his US citizenship when he was adopted by Mr. Soetoro, Obama's step-dad. Indonesian law requires that the adoptee give up any other citizenship. I've seen arguments that say the US does not recognize such loss of citizenship by a minor, as long as the minor at 18 swears a statement that he or she desires to keep their US citizenship. Anyone ever see Obama's sworn statement to that effect? The third relates to how Obama traveled to Pakistan when he was 21 or so. There's rumors that he claimed Indonesian citizenship and traveled under Indonesian passport, and even that he was enrolled at Occidental or Colombia Colleges as a foreign exchange student. Such an endorsement of Indonesian citizenship after he was an adult would mean he relinquished any claim to US birth Citizenship. He would then have to be naturalized and could never serve as President legitimately. Sure Obama is an African-American, but is he a US citizen, and is he a "natural born citizen"? Apologies for a couple of typos. "who him"! should be "who his" and probably others. Nothing to do with Hawaii, when it became a state, that's silly to suggest that's what I asked too. All residents of the territory of Hawaii had the status of citizens, date of statehood does not matter at all. And no, Obama has never provided an official birth certificate to any official in authority to rule on the matter. Elected officials such as Obama are exempt from filling out the security clearance forms. FWIW, I've filled out such forms on a number of occasions over the past 30+ years and have gone through an inordinate number of exhaustive background checks.
Politics - 26 Answers
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Obama is biracial and Hawaii is a state in America.
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President Obama is a natural born citizen. He was born in Hawaii.
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I have a copy of his Hawaiian birth certificate. yahoo answers won't allow attachments but if you send me your real email address, I'll be happy to send you a copy
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Yes, he is an american citizen born in Hawaii. http://www.snopes.com/politics/obama/citizen.asp
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HUH??? Ummm.. African Americans ARE 'natural born citizens'.... I don't understand the PURPOSE of this question.
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Yes. Hint: the election and the campaign are over. Do you have a solution for the Bush Depression? If not, go away.
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Grandma says she was present when he was born..... NOT in Hawaii. His white-trash mom was "married" to a Kenyan man, and therefore HAD to be living in the USA for 14 years in order for her to pass on Citizenship to her child. Due to her overseas living.... she had to be NINETEEN in order for her son to be considered a "natural" citizen. She had Obama when she was EIGHTEEN. ANY WAY you come at this.... he is NOT eligible to be the Pres. and THAT is why he's spent MILLIONS to seal his records!!!!
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I personally think he is, but he really should make his birth certificate open to public domain just to end any doubts.
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the Federal courts ruled that Congress has given no one the standing to bring suit on this issue -- so it isn't going to be decided. end of story
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I know. I can't believe that all of this didn't get more attention in the media than it did. I don't even think he's a citizen. He was born in Kenya.
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oh, for crissakes! when is this going to stop? he was born in HAWAII -his mother was AMERICAN - SO IS HE
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The World may never Know. SFC US Army Retired
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First of all, President Obama did indeed produce a birth certificate and it was printed in the New York Times. Why oh why are people still trying to make this an issue? As for the rest of your post- yawn......... zzzzzz.
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It is hard to believe anyone could really consider the information you have included as "facts." America, the greatest country in the world, is a Republic. If you really don't like Obama (which is obvious), why don't you put all your effort into fixing the Republican party. Volunteer locally, hand out flyers...whatever. But everytime people read the garbage you are trying to peddle, it just drives away the people you are trying to convince. The only ones who will agree with you are other far right wing nuts. I hope your will see the error of your ways. You are harming your cause more than helping it.
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Dr Orly, is that you??
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1. All this was gone over during the campaign with a microscope. 2. He did produce a birth certificate from the state of Hawaii. People who want to claim he is not a citizen simply deny it's validity, in spite of the statement of Hawaii state officials. 3. The term "natural born" has never been defined by law. It may have originally meant born on the land which is a part of America, in which case, he qualifies. It may simply mean born to an American citizen, wherever that citizen is. For instance, John McCain was born in Panama. What you are wanting is to have it defined as born to two citizens, which has never been done. 4. That's enough from me, except to say that if you want all your questions answered, go to snopes.com.
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He was in Congress so off course he was born in the United States. Not anyone can hold those positions. If you guys paid attention in U.S. Government in HS, maybe these type of questions would not be posted
18 :
Well said - but many will not listen to reason or even try to understand the actual legal discrepancies. It is really very simple to understand - yet they make a choice to ignore it. I guess the American election of a President is more in line with American Idol results rather than the Constitution.
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Until I see actualy proof otherwise, I do not consider B. Hussein Obama a natural citizen of the US. He refuses to show anyone his birth certificate, which only adds to the speculation that he has something to hide. Why else would he not make it available? Every past president had no problem with this very small request, yet B. Hussien Obama feels he does not have to follow the rules every president before him have adhered to. How do we actually know he was born in Hawaii? Because the governor says so? Really? Isnt he a democrat as well? Why would he say otherwise? He needs to look at what is best for his state, and government monies would be reduced to a trickle if he said anything other than Obama was born in Hawaii. Make sense? It's crystal clear to me. The problem is those in Washington now dont have the cajones to call him on it and force him to show the document. Show it, get it over with and those of us who think he is not a natural citizen will either be proven wrong and shut up or say told you so. Either way, something needs to be done or we will all look like fools in 15 years and he reveals in his memiors he wasn't actually a citizen!!
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The argument is that he was born in Hawaii before it became a State in 1959. However, it was a legal territory of the United States since 1900. His mother was an American Citizen and he was born in an American Protectorate (Hawaii), so he is an American, period.
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he was born in kenya,grandparent even said so.why else dose this fraud of a man not show his birth certificate.he just did the crime of the century.
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You are wrong on so many levels in so many ways that all I can say is: If you don't stop, someone is going to report you to the SPCA.... FOR BEATING A DEAD HORSE.
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can't believe the answers on here. some ppl are so stupid it's frightening. Obama is NOT a natural born citizen. he has NOT ever shown a birth certificate. he gave up his citizenship when he went to Indonesia. he went to college under foreign assistance. what? you think we sit around and make this stuff up. all we want is an official ruling, that's it. what's to argue.
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Now that the suit has the ultimate power of being prez, this issue will probably never be resolved, as the army of high dollar lawyers and liberal democrat judges counter every lawsuit presented so far. 0's also privately met (threatened?) the supremes, and subsequently the cases are all thrown out. http://wnd.com/index.php?fa=PAGE.view&pageId=86863 But they still continue, as the people deserve to know if there's a foreign usurper in the highest office in the world. And as bad a socialistic program as 0's currently passing, can you even pretend to imagine how fxcked up the US would be with Joe the gaffe machine Biden as prez?? But the issue will never go away, koolaid drinkers, because da man won't show the simple document required to end all this swirling mass of BS. Why not? A 'real' birth certificate shows several things missing on that 'Hawaii birth certificate', like the doctor's name, the hospital, the city and state of the hospital, etc. You have your own birth certificate, compare the two, see what's missing off 0's 'document'. (a REAL one: http://www.theobamafile.com/_images/HawaiinBirthCertificate.jpg ) And what a waste of space 'snopes' BS is on the issue, http://www.worldnetdaily.com/index.php?fa=PAGE.view&pageId=91196 they are drinkers themselves, and the useless judges that are 'accepting' the blogs, 'twitters' and such BS as 'proof' the issue is resolved. http://wnd.com/index.php?fa=PAGE.view&pageId=92149 Some liberal congressmen have said he's 'eligible' because he got elected!! What BS!! Under lock and key in Hawaii is the document he should have produced like McCain had to, but 0' didn't. And the media gave him the pass. http://www.wnd.com/index.php?fa=PAGE.view&pageId=88566
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Heard he was only 7% african american!! and the rest white, and arab, and as far as knowing his birthplace, we may never know!! Ask george soros, he bought and paid for "O"
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I honestly can't say whether or not he's a USA born citizen, because I've never seen the proof. A lot of folks tell me he's shown his birth certificate, but when I search their sources, (i.e. NY Times, snopes.com,...), I've never found it and they've never provided a direct link that I know of. Anyway, it would be very easy for Obama to make this document public and silence his jesters if in fact he has a US birth certificate. It's been such a silly controversy, I think if it really had been shown to us, there'd be copies of it everywhere.
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Sure Obama is an African-American, but is he a US citizen, and is he a "natural born citizen"? Obama may be an African, not just an African-American. His mom was an American and whoever his Dad was was either African or African-American so Obama sure is an African-American. Is Obama an African? Obama reasonably claims that his Dad was Barack Obama, Sr. of Kenya. If that is so he would also be African. Just as a child of an American born abroad is an American. Why is Obama's claim of who his Dad reasonable? Because that is what official divorce documents say. That is what his mom and grandparents -- and maybe even Barack Sr. told him. Yet the mom was a sexual libertine born to parents whom themselves are rumored to have been sexual libertines. It may be that the father is someone else. Perhaps Frank Davis, the bisexual marxist author of "Black Sex Rebel." At his mom's suggestion Obama went to be mentored by Frank Davis while Obama was in high school. There's some suggestion that Davis may be Obama's father because of similar ear lobe structure, that structure seems also to suggest Barack Obama Sr. from being the father, since the ear structures are so different. (There's also rumors that Malcolm X is Obama's Dad, and their facial structure is similar but there's no evidence of any proximity at all between Obama'a mom and Malcolm X.) There's no question as to who him mom is though. So Obama is an American, and maybe African. Even if his Dad were Davis (or Malcolm X, or some unknown Cuban -- which is an even less substantial rumor) Obama would still be considered African-American. Is Obama a US citizen? At this time you do not have to produce a birth certificate to be President. Obama is the proof. He did not. A President should have to show beyond any reasonable doubt that he is a "natural born citizen" because the Constitution requires it, but NO OFFICIAL IN AUTHORITY has asked for that proof. And despite that Obama's mom was a US citizen, it may be that he is not. Why? Three ways. One is that the US statute law in effect at his birth had a requirement that to gain US citizenship the US citizen parent had to live a certain number of years in the US after being 18. Obama's mom did not -- she traveled and lived abroad. It's an arguable circumstance, but it seems to me based on the law as I have seen it makes Obama not a citizen. The second is that Obama lost his US citizenship when he was adopted by Mr. Soetoro, Obama's step-dad. Indonesian law requires that the adoptee give up any other citizenship. I've seen arguments that say the US does not recognize such loss of citizenship by a minor, as long as the minor at 18 swears a statement that he or she desires to keep their US citizenship. Anyone ever see Obama's sworn statement to that effect? The third relates to how Obama traveled to Pakistan when he was 21 or so. There's rumors that he claimed Indonesian citizenship and traveled under Indonesian passport, and even that he was enrolled at Occidental or Colombia Colleges as a foreign exchange student. Such an endorsement of Indonesian citizenship after he was an adult would mean he relinquished any claim to US birth Citizenship. He would then have to be naturalized and could never serve as President legitimately. Sure Obama is an African-American, but is he a US citizen, and is he a "natural born citizen"? Apologies for a couple of typos. "who him"! should be "who his" and probably others. Nothing to do with Hawaii, when it became a state, that's silly to suggest that's what I asked too. All residents of the territory of Hawaii had the status of citizens, date of statehood does not matter at all. And no, Obama has never provided an official birth certificate to any official in authority to rule on the matter. Elected officials such as Obama are exempt from filling out the security clearance forms. FWIW, I've filled out such forms on a number of occasions over the past 30+ years and have gone through an inordinate number of exhaustive background checks.
Politics - 26 Answers
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Obama is biracial and Hawaii is a state in America.
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President Obama is a natural born citizen. He was born in Hawaii.
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I have a copy of his Hawaiian birth certificate. yahoo answers won't allow attachments but if you send me your real email address, I'll be happy to send you a copy
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Yes, he is an american citizen born in Hawaii. http://www.snopes.com/politics/obama/citizen.asp
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HUH??? Ummm.. African Americans ARE 'natural born citizens'.... I don't understand the PURPOSE of this question.
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Yes. Hint: the election and the campaign are over. Do you have a solution for the Bush Depression? If not, go away.
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Grandma says she was present when he was born..... NOT in Hawaii. His white-trash mom was "married" to a Kenyan man, and therefore HAD to be living in the USA for 14 years in order for her to pass on Citizenship to her child. Due to her overseas living.... she had to be NINETEEN in order for her son to be considered a "natural" citizen. She had Obama when she was EIGHTEEN. ANY WAY you come at this.... he is NOT eligible to be the Pres. and THAT is why he's spent MILLIONS to seal his records!!!!
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I personally think he is, but he really should make his birth certificate open to public domain just to end any doubts.
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the Federal courts ruled that Congress has given no one the standing to bring suit on this issue -- so it isn't going to be decided. end of story
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I know. I can't believe that all of this didn't get more attention in the media than it did. I don't even think he's a citizen. He was born in Kenya.
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oh, for crissakes! when is this going to stop? he was born in HAWAII -his mother was AMERICAN - SO IS HE
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The World may never Know. SFC US Army Retired
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First of all, President Obama did indeed produce a birth certificate and it was printed in the New York Times. Why oh why are people still trying to make this an issue? As for the rest of your post- yawn......... zzzzzz.
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It is hard to believe anyone could really consider the information you have included as "facts." America, the greatest country in the world, is a Republic. If you really don't like Obama (which is obvious), why don't you put all your effort into fixing the Republican party. Volunteer locally, hand out flyers...whatever. But everytime people read the garbage you are trying to peddle, it just drives away the people you are trying to convince. The only ones who will agree with you are other far right wing nuts. I hope your will see the error of your ways. You are harming your cause more than helping it.
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Dr Orly, is that you??
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1. All this was gone over during the campaign with a microscope. 2. He did produce a birth certificate from the state of Hawaii. People who want to claim he is not a citizen simply deny it's validity, in spite of the statement of Hawaii state officials. 3. The term "natural born" has never been defined by law. It may have originally meant born on the land which is a part of America, in which case, he qualifies. It may simply mean born to an American citizen, wherever that citizen is. For instance, John McCain was born in Panama. What you are wanting is to have it defined as born to two citizens, which has never been done. 4. That's enough from me, except to say that if you want all your questions answered, go to snopes.com.
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He was in Congress so off course he was born in the United States. Not anyone can hold those positions. If you guys paid attention in U.S. Government in HS, maybe these type of questions would not be posted
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Well said - but many will not listen to reason or even try to understand the actual legal discrepancies. It is really very simple to understand - yet they make a choice to ignore it. I guess the American election of a President is more in line with American Idol results rather than the Constitution.
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Until I see actualy proof otherwise, I do not consider B. Hussein Obama a natural citizen of the US. He refuses to show anyone his birth certificate, which only adds to the speculation that he has something to hide. Why else would he not make it available? Every past president had no problem with this very small request, yet B. Hussien Obama feels he does not have to follow the rules every president before him have adhered to. How do we actually know he was born in Hawaii? Because the governor says so? Really? Isnt he a democrat as well? Why would he say otherwise? He needs to look at what is best for his state, and government monies would be reduced to a trickle if he said anything other than Obama was born in Hawaii. Make sense? It's crystal clear to me. The problem is those in Washington now dont have the cajones to call him on it and force him to show the document. Show it, get it over with and those of us who think he is not a natural citizen will either be proven wrong and shut up or say told you so. Either way, something needs to be done or we will all look like fools in 15 years and he reveals in his memiors he wasn't actually a citizen!!
20 :
The argument is that he was born in Hawaii before it became a State in 1959. However, it was a legal territory of the United States since 1900. His mother was an American Citizen and he was born in an American Protectorate (Hawaii), so he is an American, period.
21 :
he was born in kenya,grandparent even said so.why else dose this fraud of a man not show his birth certificate.he just did the crime of the century.
22 :
You are wrong on so many levels in so many ways that all I can say is: If you don't stop, someone is going to report you to the SPCA.... FOR BEATING A DEAD HORSE.
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can't believe the answers on here. some ppl are so stupid it's frightening. Obama is NOT a natural born citizen. he has NOT ever shown a birth certificate. he gave up his citizenship when he went to Indonesia. he went to college under foreign assistance. what? you think we sit around and make this stuff up. all we want is an official ruling, that's it. what's to argue.
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Now that the suit has the ultimate power of being prez, this issue will probably never be resolved, as the army of high dollar lawyers and liberal democrat judges counter every lawsuit presented so far. 0's also privately met (threatened?) the supremes, and subsequently the cases are all thrown out. http://wnd.com/index.php?fa=PAGE.view&pageId=86863 But they still continue, as the people deserve to know if there's a foreign usurper in the highest office in the world. And as bad a socialistic program as 0's currently passing, can you even pretend to imagine how fxcked up the US would be with Joe the gaffe machine Biden as prez?? But the issue will never go away, koolaid drinkers, because da man won't show the simple document required to end all this swirling mass of BS. Why not? A 'real' birth certificate shows several things missing on that 'Hawaii birth certificate', like the doctor's name, the hospital, the city and state of the hospital, etc. You have your own birth certificate, compare the two, see what's missing off 0's 'document'. (a REAL one: http://www.theobamafile.com/_images/HawaiinBirthCertificate.jpg ) And what a waste of space 'snopes' BS is on the issue, http://www.worldnetdaily.com/index.php?fa=PAGE.view&pageId=91196 they are drinkers themselves, and the useless judges that are 'accepting' the blogs, 'twitters' and such BS as 'proof' the issue is resolved. http://wnd.com/index.php?fa=PAGE.view&pageId=92149 Some liberal congressmen have said he's 'eligible' because he got elected!! What BS!! Under lock and key in Hawaii is the document he should have produced like McCain had to, but 0' didn't. And the media gave him the pass. http://www.wnd.com/index.php?fa=PAGE.view&pageId=88566
25 :
Heard he was only 7% african american!! and the rest white, and arab, and as far as knowing his birthplace, we may never know!! Ask george soros, he bought and paid for "O"
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I honestly can't say whether or not he's a USA born citizen, because I've never seen the proof. A lot of folks tell me he's shown his birth certificate, but when I search their sources, (i.e. NY Times, snopes.com,...), I've never found it and they've never provided a direct link that I know of. Anyway, it would be very easy for Obama to make this document public and silence his jesters if in fact he has a US birth certificate. It's been such a silly controversy, I think if it really had been shown to us, there'd be copies of it everywhere.
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Thursday, March 7, 2013
Where is the best place to live in New York City?
Where is the best place to live in New York City?
Ok. I am looking for a place to live in NYC. For people out there that believe it depends on preference, I completely agree. So with that in mind I will give a little personal information for anyone to help me out. First off I KNOW I want to like in Manhattan so no need to recommend anything else. Second, I am a student and when I head that way I will be attending NYU, Pace, or Colombia.Obviously because I am a student i dont have a lot of money. The highest I could probably afford is between 2,000 to 2,500. Third is my dream and goal is to become a professional actor on Broadway, So I would like something kind of close to 7th street or Broadway. I dont have a problem with roommates actually I've a very social person so I would prefer a roommate or two. Ok thats all the information I think is necessary. Also if you could help answer this question too I would greatly appreciate it. What websites do you recommend to use to find these places or what is the best way to look up these areas, people looking for roommates and such. THANK YOU!
New York City - 5 Answers
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this website serves a lot of information of Relocation Advice. http://www.mydreamlocale.com/Relocation_NewYorkCity.php Check it out yourself. Hope this could help.
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Depends on the burrough. I live in Queens. Howard Beach. I work in Manhattan all day. I like Queens because it is still the city and I can drive or head out or Long Island. Manhattan feels cramped to me.
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You wrote, "I am a student... I will be attending NYU" Well, in that case, stay in NYU Student Housing (see link, below), because it's actually not bad at all, and even with $2000, you really can't afford anything in Manhattan, anyway, certainly not anywhere near where you think you want to be, and student housing will put you in Manhattan, in a decent neighborhood, for an affordable price. What's not to like? ;-) Good luck!... ☺
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You want to be an actor, NYU is the place to be. Connections, connections, connections into show biz. Around Broadway in the Village is doormen apartment buildings. Quite expensive. To save money try the East Village around Tompkins Square Park. Your best bet at NYU as the one above said is Student Housing in the East Village.
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$2000/month is a lot of money. I am sure you could find something in Manhattan for that amount. For another $2000, you could probably use a broker, and they will find you something. NYU, Pace and Columbia are in all different parts of the city. Have you thought of living in the dorms? That is probably your best bet.
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Friday, March 1, 2013
How to make her stop acting like she is so much better! Please answer!(:?
How to make her stop acting like she is so much better! Please answer!(:?
Okay... My mother and father have recently got an Exchange Student living with us from Colombia, South America. She is in the same grade as me. She is very rich and has loads of money. She thinks she is so pretty and is better than everyone else. She talks about people that has less money than her like their good for nothing. She always wants to text and listen to her ipod, she is super lazy. She has even started to be super rude to me for no reason, i have been really nice to her. I was going to take a picture of myself the other day to just joke around and she goes "Oh no! Don't do that! Your way to ugly right now!" And in my opinion that is very rude and uncalled for! So, what can i do about this? What can i tell her? It's really starting to make me mad. So please help me with some great advice.(: Thanks(:
Friends - 4 Answers
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tell the rich bitch off. tell her to stop being a stuck up snob.
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Sorry but you should know in a steoro typical view the upper classes look down on the lower classes for being lazy when we actual make hardly enough to survive or feed our mouths. She is byist in her prespective and will not change how she acts. You could resort to embarrassing her. Have a friend or someone that'll 'make a fire' with her and just ridicule her. You could have a conversation next time she starts with you and just tell her straight up how you feel. You also have to remeber other countries look down on america and there's diff cultures so tell her how the american culture goes. (Americans will not lose and like to fight). Good luck.
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ignore her dont talk to her or even look at her! avoid her the best u can! then she'll know she did something wrong
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you hav to be mean and tlk bck to her you have to be like b***** this is my house not you casel so stfu and go bck to where ever you came from you ugly b****
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