Sunday, April 28, 2013
Wich country is the best?
Wich country is the best?
Wich country is the best for studying? I need everone's opinion. Here is the list of countries I can choose from for an exchange student program: ---------------------------------- ArgentinaFranceNorway AustraliaGermanyPanama AustriaGhanaParaguay BelgiumGuatemalaPeru BoliviaHondurasPhilippines BrazilHong KongPortugal CanadaHungaryRussia ChileIcelandSlovakia ChinaIndiaSouth Africa ColombiaIndonesiaSpain Costa RicaItaliaSweden Czech RepublicJapanSwitzerland DenmarkLatviaThailand Dominican RepublicMalaysiaTurkey EcuadorMexicoUnited Kingdom EgyptNetherlandsUnited States FinlandNew ZealandVenezuela ------------------------------------------ Thanks! I'm from Canada.
Other - Destinations - 17 Answers
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Australia was really fun when i went out there....
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Scotland or France, but if you are in the U.S or Canada you should defenetly stay there
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I think switching places with someone from Argentina, Coast Rica, or Panama would be pretty awesome!!
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I've been to Australia, that place rocked, Hong Kong is great especially the nightlife and the shopping, the U.S. because it's multicultural, and Mexico is pretty cool too. I hope this helps.
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Hong khong is kool pretty cloth and beautiful view or china you can go to china wall the world wonder
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The main question that should be asked first is "WHAT" not "WHERE"...some countries and colleges are better than others depending on the major not the geographical location.
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It depends what you want to learn. If you just want to know the country I would recomend Czech Republic or Mexico.
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I would avoid a country whose dominant culture is one that shuns women or relegates them to second-class. This would include Egypt, India, Indonesia, Japan, Malaysia, Turkey. I would avoid a poor country with dangerous roads, terrible infrastructure and high crime. Half of the countries on your list fit into this category. I would certainly avoid China, Argentina,Paraguay, Guatemala, Peru, Bolivia, Ghana,Honduras, Phillipines, Hong Kong, Colombia, Thailand, Dom. Repub, Ecuador, Mexico, Venezuela (in addition to the countries I already listed above). Maybe i should have just listed the few countries left that I would recommend: France, Norway, Austrialia, Germany, Austria, Belgium, Canada, Iceland, Spain, Sweden, Switzerland, Denmark, UK, Netherlands, USA, Finland, New Zealand. That's it...
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Australia is great. We talk english, have warm weather and great places to go. We are also very friendly and will always help another person out if they need it. Try to go to NSW or QLD though if you come here. We use to have exchange students at my school and they always had so much fun with us and they made really strong friendships with so many people.
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G'day, This is what I know abt Australia, since I was an international students there... There are only 42 (soon to be 43) universities in Australia, all of them are fully accredited and they are tightly regulated, therefore the quality and recognition of their graduates are equal from wherever university you are studying from. The most important thing is you have to READ the course information carefully, since some courses may have the same name but different content. To find out the course that you are taking and where it is offered, I suggest you to go to Dept of Education, Science and Technology (http://cricos.dest.gov.au) and IDP Education Australia website (www.idp.edu.au). IDP is an organisation that gives information to international students who wants to continue their study in Australia. You need to make sure what psychology you want to study. Once decided on the uni, fill in the application form and send it together with certified copy of your academic qualification. Living cost... Sydney and Canberra have the highest living cost, followed by Melbourne & Brisbane, then Perth, Darwin, Adelaide & Tasmania the lowest. I am attaching a weblink from one of the uni in Melbourne as an indication. Hope this helps. E-mail me at mikegun(at)studentfirst.com.au if you have more questions abt study in Australia. Good luck for your study and welcome to Australia :)
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Russia. Добри Вечаир
12 :
Sweden of course. The system of education there is one of the best in the world.
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First of all, where are you from?? I'm from Indonesia, and studying in Indonesia will give u a great experience to embrance in a new culture ( and to Mr. PS --> WHO SAID WE SHUN WOMEN???? U watch too much political news!) Currently I am studying in Malaysia, level of english is quite ok. I would say it is a mixture of quite good facilities and standard of living with a quite strong local culture too I studied in Sweden before, and FELT IN LOVE WITH SWEDEN!! Everything was perfect, i love systembolaget, i love the cute guys, love all the pre-parties, parties, and after-parties, all in all i LOVE SWEDEN SO DAMN MUCH! (But i do not suggest u to come to Sweden if u r from a 4 season country, u'll find the weather is really irritating!) I've travelled a lot to Singapore and visit many Singaporean universities.. the education level is the highest in South East Asia.. people comman understanding about english is very high ( but then u must get used to their Sing-lish accent) and the infrastructure is good. I've travelled to Thailand too and it is a very unique place in a sense that they value foreigners very much but still u feel it pity coz u find it difficult to understand their accent.. I've travelled to Hong Kong, and probably will not wanna go there anymore coz it's too expensive for having leisure time! ( even my Swedish friend said so!) I've travelled to Norway and Denmark , beautiful countries, great education, but somehow i still prefer Sweden... I stayed during Winter in China, the only place that i enjoyed the most was Urumqi, Xinjiang (believe it or not!)! Anyway, i myself will go for an exchange student program.. my 1st study abroad will be in Turkey for 1 semester... and the 2nd semester i will spend in Ecuador..Simply because i am a person who loves to learn language n culture.. exploring new places which is something really new for me is the point...
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Finland, with the best education system in the world (according to PISA results).
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EGYPT PEOPLE ARE KIND AND FRIENDLY
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Portugal
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I would go with a Western European country. Not only will you get to study, you can easily see the rest of Europe.
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Bolivia honduras-philippines
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Sunday, April 14, 2013
tourist visa help, advice, experience. thank you?
tourist visa help, advice, experience. thank you?
i am sponsoring someone to come from colombia to the u.s. I was told i have to write a letter of support in which it shows i am financially stable. i have a home, work, and some time deposits. i am trying to get a copy of an example so i know what to include and what not to. also do people from colombia need a sponsor to get a student visa, anyone know? anyone know of any other steps i need to take? thank you all. i really appriciate your help. oh yeah i am a u.s. citizen and 22 (in case anyone needs this info) the person i am sponsoring is just a friend. i am sorry i meant a tourist visa. i forgot to mwntion she is a student in a univ of colombia
Immigration - 3 Answers
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I'm not from Colombia but normally what the US consulate wants to see before they issue a tourist visa B1/B2 is that the person has ties to their home country and is financially capable of coming to the states to visit. If you can get those paper to him it will help in the process but he will need to show ties to Colombia, like a job, a rent contract, a house, family, etc. For studding it's a whole different thing, those are F visas and they need to be sponsored by the college he will be attending, normally you have to apply for the college from your home country and then when the have accepted you they will send you the necessary paperwork to file for an F visa. Check the links below:
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If you need a letter to show that you are financially stable, you do not write it yourself, you have to let the bank knows that and they should be able to give it to you because they should be familiar with those types of letters. And yes they do need a sponsor if that is the option they are taking, but you need to have some $$$$ in the bank. I know a good lawyer who can help you. So email if you need more info
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In the uscis site you will find all the information. Go to www.uscis.gov Generaly the letther is only and statment of your financial status, where you have to put your income , employer, starting date , among any data useful to demostrate you are in an stable position. Give then copy of your loan or house title, car title, earning statetments, bank account , saving and so on.
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i am sponsoring someone to come from colombia to the u.s. I was told i have to write a letter of support in which it shows i am financially stable. i have a home, work, and some time deposits. i am trying to get a copy of an example so i know what to include and what not to. also do people from colombia need a sponsor to get a student visa, anyone know? anyone know of any other steps i need to take? thank you all. i really appriciate your help. oh yeah i am a u.s. citizen and 22 (in case anyone needs this info) the person i am sponsoring is just a friend. i am sorry i meant a tourist visa. i forgot to mwntion she is a student in a univ of colombia
Immigration - 3 Answers
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1 :
I'm not from Colombia but normally what the US consulate wants to see before they issue a tourist visa B1/B2 is that the person has ties to their home country and is financially capable of coming to the states to visit. If you can get those paper to him it will help in the process but he will need to show ties to Colombia, like a job, a rent contract, a house, family, etc. For studding it's a whole different thing, those are F visas and they need to be sponsored by the college he will be attending, normally you have to apply for the college from your home country and then when the have accepted you they will send you the necessary paperwork to file for an F visa. Check the links below:
2 :
If you need a letter to show that you are financially stable, you do not write it yourself, you have to let the bank knows that and they should be able to give it to you because they should be familiar with those types of letters. And yes they do need a sponsor if that is the option they are taking, but you need to have some $$$$ in the bank. I know a good lawyer who can help you. So email if you need more info
3 :
In the uscis site you will find all the information. Go to www.uscis.gov Generaly the letther is only and statment of your financial status, where you have to put your income , employer, starting date , among any data useful to demostrate you are in an stable position. Give then copy of your loan or house title, car title, earning statetments, bank account , saving and so on.
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Sunday, April 7, 2013
how to make this girl like me? she's not atracted to me because I am american?
how to make this girl like me? she's not atracted to me because I am american?
I hang out with a British guy who has a very hot friend from Colombia here in London, she is a foreign exchange student like me. I asked her out one time and she said ok, during our night out and I told her that I found her very atractive and she told me she was flattered but she wasn't much into American men. She was more into European or guys from her country. I really can't stop thinking of her.........
Other - Family & Relationships - 18 Answers
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show her your wallet, asset, wealth.
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Maybe you can convince her otherwise with your charm and personality. Its worth a try!
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Ok first and foremost you can't make someone like you...so move on or be her friend - but sorry you can't make someone like you.
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You can't make anyone like you.....just have to be nice, not over-bearing, and hope for the best.........
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u cant make her like u....leave her alone n see if she wants to be with u...dont look desperate in front of her or else u might lose her
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Apply glue to your entire body and roll around the barbershop floor for a bit. You'll look like a hairy Italian or Greek in a matter of minutes
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Act American and if she doesn't like you, then it's her loss. Seriously, you sound like a great guy and i bet alotta girls who respects you regardless of your nationality would love to go out with you.
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thats funny cause my friend who went over being 16 said that girls over there love america guys.. maybe you should wear boots more country and more of a man
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It sounds to me like maybe you might of came on too strong. Or simply that you may have said something that irked her the wrong way. There are other girls out there.
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Respect her opinion and if your a good guy you may grow on her. She may just never be into you and thats something you will have to accept. There are many fish in the sea.
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As someone who has dated both Nationalities, let me assure you not to worry love. It's her loss!
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well you gotta understand why americans arn't as attractive as europian dudes - try and take her out on another date and just talk to her and see how much you have in common - if you do she might start liking you
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Well, there may not be any way to get her to like you bro. She just isn't into American men, like alot of American men aren't into some girls because of where they come from. Just go up to her tommorow, or whenever you see her. And tell her, "Listen, I like you, you're beautiful, and I just needed to get those thoughts off my chest, I know were never be together, but I needed to tell you that, I hope we can still be friends, and I hope that we can still talk." Or something like that; that way she knows how you feel, and maybe she will feel MORE confterable in talking to you, and ya never know, you guys may go out. Although, however, I can't promise anything, just givin you some advice, hope all goes well.
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YOU CAN'T MAKE ANYBODY DO ANYTHING THEY DON'T WANT TO DO...SHE ISN'T INTERESTED, GET IT...MOVE ON...
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whatever the reason is that she is not into american men, respect it and try to be a good friend and maybe she'll change her mind because she see's you and not the "American"
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well then leave adn find someone else...
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You must find the real reason why she think she couldn't like you back. If it's (1) she doesn't want american men or (2) just into men of her origin or continent. They're different from one another. If it's (1), you got to find the things she dislikes about american men. and find ways for her like to understand those things, if not prove her that she's wrong on what she believes. If it's (2), find reason what is it she likes in men of her origin / continent. Maybe she like certain qualities she thinks unique on them. The culture, how they respect women on their area. Find ways to somehow resemble those qualities. Or if it's not really u, hi-light special qualities that will insinuate the things she could miss if she concentrates on her preference. One more thing, also consider other reasons why she indirectly said she doesn't like you. She might just sort of challenging you. Or really don't want you at all. Research your subject if you're really interested on her.
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-Forget her, she will not change her likes/dislikes just for you. -Look further afield and you will find someone more deserving of your attention and affection.
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I hang out with a British guy who has a very hot friend from Colombia here in London, she is a foreign exchange student like me. I asked her out one time and she said ok, during our night out and I told her that I found her very atractive and she told me she was flattered but she wasn't much into American men. She was more into European or guys from her country. I really can't stop thinking of her.........
Other - Family & Relationships - 18 Answers
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1 :
show her your wallet, asset, wealth.
2 :
Maybe you can convince her otherwise with your charm and personality. Its worth a try!
3 :
Ok first and foremost you can't make someone like you...so move on or be her friend - but sorry you can't make someone like you.
4 :
You can't make anyone like you.....just have to be nice, not over-bearing, and hope for the best.........
5 :
u cant make her like u....leave her alone n see if she wants to be with u...dont look desperate in front of her or else u might lose her
6 :
Apply glue to your entire body and roll around the barbershop floor for a bit. You'll look like a hairy Italian or Greek in a matter of minutes
7 :
Act American and if she doesn't like you, then it's her loss. Seriously, you sound like a great guy and i bet alotta girls who respects you regardless of your nationality would love to go out with you.
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thats funny cause my friend who went over being 16 said that girls over there love america guys.. maybe you should wear boots more country and more of a man
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It sounds to me like maybe you might of came on too strong. Or simply that you may have said something that irked her the wrong way. There are other girls out there.
10 :
Respect her opinion and if your a good guy you may grow on her. She may just never be into you and thats something you will have to accept. There are many fish in the sea.
11 :
As someone who has dated both Nationalities, let me assure you not to worry love. It's her loss!
12 :
well you gotta understand why americans arn't as attractive as europian dudes - try and take her out on another date and just talk to her and see how much you have in common - if you do she might start liking you
13 :
Well, there may not be any way to get her to like you bro. She just isn't into American men, like alot of American men aren't into some girls because of where they come from. Just go up to her tommorow, or whenever you see her. And tell her, "Listen, I like you, you're beautiful, and I just needed to get those thoughts off my chest, I know were never be together, but I needed to tell you that, I hope we can still be friends, and I hope that we can still talk." Or something like that; that way she knows how you feel, and maybe she will feel MORE confterable in talking to you, and ya never know, you guys may go out. Although, however, I can't promise anything, just givin you some advice, hope all goes well.
14 :
YOU CAN'T MAKE ANYBODY DO ANYTHING THEY DON'T WANT TO DO...SHE ISN'T INTERESTED, GET IT...MOVE ON...
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whatever the reason is that she is not into american men, respect it and try to be a good friend and maybe she'll change her mind because she see's you and not the "American"
16 :
well then leave adn find someone else...
17 :
You must find the real reason why she think she couldn't like you back. If it's (1) she doesn't want american men or (2) just into men of her origin or continent. They're different from one another. If it's (1), you got to find the things she dislikes about american men. and find ways for her like to understand those things, if not prove her that she's wrong on what she believes. If it's (2), find reason what is it she likes in men of her origin / continent. Maybe she like certain qualities she thinks unique on them. The culture, how they respect women on their area. Find ways to somehow resemble those qualities. Or if it's not really u, hi-light special qualities that will insinuate the things she could miss if she concentrates on her preference. One more thing, also consider other reasons why she indirectly said she doesn't like you. She might just sort of challenging you. Or really don't want you at all. Research your subject if you're really interested on her.
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-Forget her, she will not change her likes/dislikes just for you. -Look further afield and you will find someone more deserving of your attention and affection.
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Monday, April 1, 2013
can you help me, am I a whore? please help me I am scared, confused, suicidal even!!!?
can you help me, am I a whore? please help me I am scared, confused, suicidal even!!!?
I am a 23 year old woman from Colombia........ I am a foreign exchange student in the US and my host family opened their arms to me. they are a married couple, typical all white suburbia family, they have a 4 year old son and the wife 29 y/o is a stay at home mom, the dad 30 y/o works in a law firm. I have been with them 4 months and two weeks after I got here I couldnt help but noticing that the husband would always look at me in a very different manner...... with like a lot of passion even when the wife was there one time the wife was in her mom's house and I got from school and he was in his towel, he just got outta the shower and he was so sexy after that time I felt for him and we've been having a secret relationship. I am sorry , I know is bad but I love him..... I never thought I would fall in love with a white guy...... I love his voice, his hands, his body, I love when we're together and he makes love to me and I dont care about anything, his blue eyes are my heaven. we have talked about his wife and he says he doesnt love her he just married her because it was his highschool sweetheart and tonight he proposed me to escape with him and go to canada and then to europe, he claims he has enough money what should I do?
Marriage & Divorce - 51 Answers
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go for it not your fault just make sure hes serious and thats what you want
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I really don't think either of you are being fair to wife or the son.
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just go ...nothing else we could say , what done is done...
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Only you can answer that question, it will destroy his family though, keep that in mind before you do anything
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Well I think he should divorce his wife....poor thing....and you can go be with him. But if he did that to his wife.....then he will do it to you too...It won't be all perfect....
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Yes you are a wh-re. Go back to Columbia. Don't be a homewrecking sl-t.
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Get sober! Quite down there in the peanut gallery! I have NEVER met a whore who was not addicted to drugs or alcohol! Believe me all, I know plenty of whores. It comes with the job. Anyway...back to you... You need to get into a 12 step program, with a sponsor, and get sober! You whole life hinges on your sobriety!
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retard
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OMGG!!! dont run away with him thats ridculous, he has a wife that thinks he loves her and a baby boy, My ada left witha nother women and it broke my heart!!!! and my mum wouldnt stop crying! please please dont hurt the women and her baby BOY!!! PLEASE! dont doo it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
10 :
You better go with him... you two have already screwed up the marriage. However, don't be surprised if he leaves you to be with his wife again.. or another woman. Men like this are FULL of empty promises.. no matter HOW much you think they love you.
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Suicidal? Don't worry, I think the wife will kill you. Can't wait for Karma!
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He is going to screw you over the way he has screwed his wife over, we have a little thing called KARMA and she is going to be gunning for you. End the relationship and save yourself some grief down the road. Or hey wasn't suicide a option?
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Get out of there. that is your host ftamily... What were you thinking? He has a wife and 4 year old son? And you want to ruin his wife and sons life? Your are not a whore but obviously very selfish... If this man did not love his wife and wanted to leave he would of left with or without you, trust me my father did the same. And think about this, If he was having an affair with you whilst with a wife and child, what do you think he wont do the same to you? come on girl your living in a dream world.
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Dummy....his wife is his LOVE...his high school sweetheart...you, my dear, are just a piece of @ss.
15 :
This woman has opened her home to you and you repay her by sleeping with her husband?? I'm not sure how you do it in COLOMBIA, but that makes you both adulterers. He's a jerk who should have never come on to you - but you should have turned him down. They have a child - and the two of you are just gonna run off. Where does that leave his 4 yr old son - and his poor wife? If he cheated on her - he'll cheat on you...GUARANTEED. You'll be as replaceable as she is! More than likely, he'll never leave his wife, not as long as the both of you are there putting out!
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Technically no, but what if you were the other woman. Karmas a bitch! I think you did wrong!
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First, you are not a whore. You just feel in love with a married man. It happens. Second, if doesn't love his wife, then why is he still with her? If you hadn't came along would he still want to leave or is he using you as an excuse to get out? Why Canada and Europe? Why can't he just leave his wife and stay where he is? What about his son and job? Think about all this before you do anything. Don't let him fill your head with empty promises.
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Sounds like you've already made your mind up! Be very aware of the repercussion's that WILL occur! He will be found out, and there will be 'fireworks', that I can guarantee you!
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no way hun. don't go to canada or europe or anywhere too far away, because that's just bad news, and if he's still married to his wife, tell him that you two need to keep your cool while you're there and he's still married. you have to put yourself in his wife's situation, and think about what would happen if she found out? if it was you i'm sure you would just be devastated. he's also way too old for you, i mean i know that alot of women are attracted to older men, but he's just too far out there. who knows, this could even be a life and death situation if his wife found out, and you don't know his whole life story either. be careful.
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Why not go all the way, you already cheated with him.
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You should be scared. What don't you start by making good decision.
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you dont have to do anything, it will all blow up soon enough..you have to remember,the wife is going to get everything....you two jackasses wrecked a home...high school sweet hearts, my butt.its a comfort zone,and he is out of bounds
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Call your parents and tell them what happened and that you need to come home. Trust me..this is lust NOT love. Get out of the situation before any more harm is done.
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You are not a whore stuff like this happens but the main thing you need to remeber if he cheated on his wife he will probably cheat on you too.
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He has fallen out of love with her and has feelings for you. It would be wise to wait for his other child to come home from Colombia or where ever this child is at, since you say your a foreign exchange student, and then you go home and forget the whole mess. I don't think your a whore but you need better judgment, what a mess to be involved in especially since your in a foreign country. Its all up to you really, what do you want to do and can you live with the consequences?
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To answer your question; Yes! Yes, you are. Get out of that house, you home wrecker. Either go back to your country or find somewhere else to live. And let it not be another family you can ruin.
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he will always be a part of her life they have a child together just rember that he did it to her he will do it to you.... good luck your going to need it cause if i was his wife i would hunt you down like a dog....
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its not easy being in love with someone. especially when you feel that passion between the two of you. there is nothing wrong with you. you are following your heart. He needs to make a decision- you or his wife - he needs to tell her asap - and then live his life with you - make sure he is serious - if he really is ...hed tell his wife right away and chose you. I know its not fair - but its better to be honest...trust me he needs to be open and honest with his wife - this way he would get the problem off his shoulder and be fair to everyone
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First, don't kill yourself. You made a mistake falling in love with a married man. You might want to leave that situation. If this was a single man, it wouldn't be a problem. He's the one that cheated on his wife, but you're not making it any easier. Leave as soon as you can.
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Feel ashamed and go home and forget about him.
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i believe you should move out and move on.its not fair to his wife and she also took you in.if you did leave with him,whoes to say in a year or two that he want do the same to you.dont let him use you as a scapegoat to get out of his mairrage.there is a real man out there that will love you/protect you/and give you the world if he could and never cheat on you.
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Love is strong girl butif you go away with him he is just going to do the same to you what he did to his wife Then you'll be hurt What goes around comes around Yes you will always love him but you have tobe strong and find a man who love you and not keep you as a side line chick
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he leave u too once he has had enough of u. high school sweetheart or not he married her cuz he loved her. he can say he loves u know but chances are in a few years he'll do the same to u.
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Firstly ..tell yourself you are not a whore...because you are not.......think about it, are you charging him for the sex...? Also tell yourself he is a liar because he is....he tells you he doesnt love his wife to make you think you have a chance with him...to keep you there to have sex with....dont be taken in by this...get out of there real quick...and take the good feelings of how you felt with you...they are yours to keep...throw out the bad ones... Dont put yourself down....the nice feelings and pleasure you have felt are not bad things...only the way you think about them can make it bad... you are not a bad person because you had sex with a married man....he is in a position of power here...its his house and he is taking advantage of you.... Dont let this experience suck you into thinking its the real deal....he is not doing you any favours by having sex with you....and you are not doing yourself any favours by thinking he is or by continuing it, or by believing anything he is telling you....he is lying to his wife, family, friends and everyone around him by having sex with you....dont be fooled... leave...
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You call yourself a 23yr old woman..haha women like you are worth sh!t to me..scared confused and even suicidal...awwwwee... yeah do society a favor!! Hope she finds out and take her asss hole husband for what is worth..you know what? ..then you probably be the one supporting him him..B/C he won't have a damn dime to support you! What goes around goes around and come back and bite you right on the assssssss...I hope you and him pay for what you both are doing...you lucky you aren't on my territory..enough said! grrrrrrrrr
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yes that is wrong think about would u want that done to u plus ur still young and fresh to da country think about it if u didnt meet them would he have stayed with his wife then again he probably would of meet someone else see u have to be careful cause he knows ur situation and u seem volunerable to him u have to be strong and yes i wouldnt call u a whore but how do u feel inside apparently u dont feel whole cuz u wouldnt ? it wake up boo boo this is america
37 :
once a cheater always a cheater. as soon as something younger and better comes along, he'll leave you that is if he even leaves his wife.
38 :
To answer your original question: Yes, you are a whore. You are a home wrecker and thanks to you his kids will not have a dad, anymore. Oh, yeah, and he'll leave you, too, as soon as another younger piece comes around. Congratulations.
39 :
you only live once honey. Are you SURE your in love with him??? NOT lust???
40 :
yeah, you're a whore. you knew he was married and you f*cked him anyway. bad bad girl.
41 :
You have fallen for the oldest line in the book ( I DON'T LOVE MY WIFE) Isn't it funny how every single husband uses the same line and it's still working on dumb little girls like you. Do you really think he is going to run off with you and leave everything he loves. The only thing he loves about you is the fact that your different and younger then his wife.Make no mistake you will wear off and when you do he will make sure you are out of his house faster then you can open your legs.Your mother would be so ashamed if she knew what you were doing to this family who took you in. I hope someday someone like you comes into your life and sleeps with your husband then and only then will you know the kind of heart break you are going to cause his poor wife who did nothing to you but be your friend.With friends like you who needs enemies.
42 :
his eyes r ur heaven...but his manhood is sending u to hell
43 :
Something built on a lie will never last
44 :
Sweetie, you should get the heck out of there as soon as possible. It's a bad situation if the mom finds out what's going on. If you really love him and want to leave with him then move out and let him deal with his situation. After that you can be with him.
45 :
wow. he'll cheat on you eventually. and what about his son? do either of you think of what is best for him? you deserve eachother, for sure, but wife and son deserve so much better.
46 :
No, you are not a wh*re but you are a naughty naughty girl.
47 :
If I were you, I would definitely get out of there away from him and that situation! He is a total jerk for treating his wife and son that way. He would probably do the same to you eventually! You don't really know this guy and are just loving him because of the sex. Sex is an instant way of intimacy between two people, but should never be the only factor in deciding to be with someone! How well does he know you? Does he know all of your favorite things? Does he know what you want to do with your future? Does he know what makes you mad? He probably doesn't and doesn't care either. He just likes the sex. He married his wife for a reason, not because she was his high school sweetheart but because he loved her. He's probably gotten in a rut and then you come along and he's taken advantage of the situation and of you. You need to take care of yourself and find someone who is going to be your best friend to be in love with, not a married guy who is doing you behind his wife's back! Open your eyes!!!!
48 :
You should pack your bags and leave. wtf is this for real?
49 :
I think this a terrible situation for the wife. How is she going to feel when her husband walks out on her and their son? Does she love him? If so she will be devestated. And is he going to provide for them? You cannot help falling in love, but if you are going to run off with this man, I hope that he will have the decency not to leave his wife and child high and dry without anything. And I hope also that he is going to really commit himself to you and not dump you when he tires of you. I hope that he really does love you as much as you love him.
50 :
yes u are.. sad but true.. but u can return and fix it. leave him , he has a family he has children he has a wife who has only helped to you.just think if you were that woman , what would you think about tht ??.
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I am a 23 year old woman from Colombia........ I am a foreign exchange student in the US and my host family opened their arms to me. they are a married couple, typical all white suburbia family, they have a 4 year old son and the wife 29 y/o is a stay at home mom, the dad 30 y/o works in a law firm. I have been with them 4 months and two weeks after I got here I couldnt help but noticing that the husband would always look at me in a very different manner...... with like a lot of passion even when the wife was there one time the wife was in her mom's house and I got from school and he was in his towel, he just got outta the shower and he was so sexy after that time I felt for him and we've been having a secret relationship. I am sorry , I know is bad but I love him..... I never thought I would fall in love with a white guy...... I love his voice, his hands, his body, I love when we're together and he makes love to me and I dont care about anything, his blue eyes are my heaven. we have talked about his wife and he says he doesnt love her he just married her because it was his highschool sweetheart and tonight he proposed me to escape with him and go to canada and then to europe, he claims he has enough money what should I do?
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1 :
go for it not your fault just make sure hes serious and thats what you want
2 :
I really don't think either of you are being fair to wife or the son.
3 :
just go ...nothing else we could say , what done is done...
4 :
Only you can answer that question, it will destroy his family though, keep that in mind before you do anything
5 :
Well I think he should divorce his wife....poor thing....and you can go be with him. But if he did that to his wife.....then he will do it to you too...It won't be all perfect....
6 :
Yes you are a wh-re. Go back to Columbia. Don't be a homewrecking sl-t.
7 :
Get sober! Quite down there in the peanut gallery! I have NEVER met a whore who was not addicted to drugs or alcohol! Believe me all, I know plenty of whores. It comes with the job. Anyway...back to you... You need to get into a 12 step program, with a sponsor, and get sober! You whole life hinges on your sobriety!
8 :
retard
9 :
OMGG!!! dont run away with him thats ridculous, he has a wife that thinks he loves her and a baby boy, My ada left witha nother women and it broke my heart!!!! and my mum wouldnt stop crying! please please dont hurt the women and her baby BOY!!! PLEASE! dont doo it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
10 :
You better go with him... you two have already screwed up the marriage. However, don't be surprised if he leaves you to be with his wife again.. or another woman. Men like this are FULL of empty promises.. no matter HOW much you think they love you.
11 :
Suicidal? Don't worry, I think the wife will kill you. Can't wait for Karma!
12 :
He is going to screw you over the way he has screwed his wife over, we have a little thing called KARMA and she is going to be gunning for you. End the relationship and save yourself some grief down the road. Or hey wasn't suicide a option?
13 :
Get out of there. that is your host ftamily... What were you thinking? He has a wife and 4 year old son? And you want to ruin his wife and sons life? Your are not a whore but obviously very selfish... If this man did not love his wife and wanted to leave he would of left with or without you, trust me my father did the same. And think about this, If he was having an affair with you whilst with a wife and child, what do you think he wont do the same to you? come on girl your living in a dream world.
14 :
Dummy....his wife is his LOVE...his high school sweetheart...you, my dear, are just a piece of @ss.
15 :
This woman has opened her home to you and you repay her by sleeping with her husband?? I'm not sure how you do it in COLOMBIA, but that makes you both adulterers. He's a jerk who should have never come on to you - but you should have turned him down. They have a child - and the two of you are just gonna run off. Where does that leave his 4 yr old son - and his poor wife? If he cheated on her - he'll cheat on you...GUARANTEED. You'll be as replaceable as she is! More than likely, he'll never leave his wife, not as long as the both of you are there putting out!
16 :
Technically no, but what if you were the other woman. Karmas a bitch! I think you did wrong!
17 :
First, you are not a whore. You just feel in love with a married man. It happens. Second, if doesn't love his wife, then why is he still with her? If you hadn't came along would he still want to leave or is he using you as an excuse to get out? Why Canada and Europe? Why can't he just leave his wife and stay where he is? What about his son and job? Think about all this before you do anything. Don't let him fill your head with empty promises.
18 :
Sounds like you've already made your mind up! Be very aware of the repercussion's that WILL occur! He will be found out, and there will be 'fireworks', that I can guarantee you!
19 :
no way hun. don't go to canada or europe or anywhere too far away, because that's just bad news, and if he's still married to his wife, tell him that you two need to keep your cool while you're there and he's still married. you have to put yourself in his wife's situation, and think about what would happen if she found out? if it was you i'm sure you would just be devastated. he's also way too old for you, i mean i know that alot of women are attracted to older men, but he's just too far out there. who knows, this could even be a life and death situation if his wife found out, and you don't know his whole life story either. be careful.
20 :
Why not go all the way, you already cheated with him.
21 :
You should be scared. What don't you start by making good decision.
22 :
you dont have to do anything, it will all blow up soon enough..you have to remember,the wife is going to get everything....you two jackasses wrecked a home...high school sweet hearts, my butt.its a comfort zone,and he is out of bounds
23 :
Call your parents and tell them what happened and that you need to come home. Trust me..this is lust NOT love. Get out of the situation before any more harm is done.
24 :
You are not a whore stuff like this happens but the main thing you need to remeber if he cheated on his wife he will probably cheat on you too.
25 :
He has fallen out of love with her and has feelings for you. It would be wise to wait for his other child to come home from Colombia or where ever this child is at, since you say your a foreign exchange student, and then you go home and forget the whole mess. I don't think your a whore but you need better judgment, what a mess to be involved in especially since your in a foreign country. Its all up to you really, what do you want to do and can you live with the consequences?
26 :
To answer your question; Yes! Yes, you are. Get out of that house, you home wrecker. Either go back to your country or find somewhere else to live. And let it not be another family you can ruin.
27 :
he will always be a part of her life they have a child together just rember that he did it to her he will do it to you.... good luck your going to need it cause if i was his wife i would hunt you down like a dog....
28 :
its not easy being in love with someone. especially when you feel that passion between the two of you. there is nothing wrong with you. you are following your heart. He needs to make a decision- you or his wife - he needs to tell her asap - and then live his life with you - make sure he is serious - if he really is ...hed tell his wife right away and chose you. I know its not fair - but its better to be honest...trust me he needs to be open and honest with his wife - this way he would get the problem off his shoulder and be fair to everyone
29 :
First, don't kill yourself. You made a mistake falling in love with a married man. You might want to leave that situation. If this was a single man, it wouldn't be a problem. He's the one that cheated on his wife, but you're not making it any easier. Leave as soon as you can.
30 :
Feel ashamed and go home and forget about him.
31 :
i believe you should move out and move on.its not fair to his wife and she also took you in.if you did leave with him,whoes to say in a year or two that he want do the same to you.dont let him use you as a scapegoat to get out of his mairrage.there is a real man out there that will love you/protect you/and give you the world if he could and never cheat on you.
32 :
Love is strong girl butif you go away with him he is just going to do the same to you what he did to his wife Then you'll be hurt What goes around comes around Yes you will always love him but you have tobe strong and find a man who love you and not keep you as a side line chick
33 :
he leave u too once he has had enough of u. high school sweetheart or not he married her cuz he loved her. he can say he loves u know but chances are in a few years he'll do the same to u.
34 :
Firstly ..tell yourself you are not a whore...because you are not.......think about it, are you charging him for the sex...? Also tell yourself he is a liar because he is....he tells you he doesnt love his wife to make you think you have a chance with him...to keep you there to have sex with....dont be taken in by this...get out of there real quick...and take the good feelings of how you felt with you...they are yours to keep...throw out the bad ones... Dont put yourself down....the nice feelings and pleasure you have felt are not bad things...only the way you think about them can make it bad... you are not a bad person because you had sex with a married man....he is in a position of power here...its his house and he is taking advantage of you.... Dont let this experience suck you into thinking its the real deal....he is not doing you any favours by having sex with you....and you are not doing yourself any favours by thinking he is or by continuing it, or by believing anything he is telling you....he is lying to his wife, family, friends and everyone around him by having sex with you....dont be fooled... leave...
35 :
You call yourself a 23yr old woman..haha women like you are worth sh!t to me..scared confused and even suicidal...awwwwee... yeah do society a favor!! Hope she finds out and take her asss hole husband for what is worth..you know what? ..then you probably be the one supporting him him..B/C he won't have a damn dime to support you! What goes around goes around and come back and bite you right on the assssssss...I hope you and him pay for what you both are doing...you lucky you aren't on my territory..enough said! grrrrrrrrr
36 :
yes that is wrong think about would u want that done to u plus ur still young and fresh to da country think about it if u didnt meet them would he have stayed with his wife then again he probably would of meet someone else see u have to be careful cause he knows ur situation and u seem volunerable to him u have to be strong and yes i wouldnt call u a whore but how do u feel inside apparently u dont feel whole cuz u wouldnt ? it wake up boo boo this is america
37 :
once a cheater always a cheater. as soon as something younger and better comes along, he'll leave you that is if he even leaves his wife.
38 :
To answer your original question: Yes, you are a whore. You are a home wrecker and thanks to you his kids will not have a dad, anymore. Oh, yeah, and he'll leave you, too, as soon as another younger piece comes around. Congratulations.
39 :
you only live once honey. Are you SURE your in love with him??? NOT lust???
40 :
yeah, you're a whore. you knew he was married and you f*cked him anyway. bad bad girl.
41 :
You have fallen for the oldest line in the book ( I DON'T LOVE MY WIFE) Isn't it funny how every single husband uses the same line and it's still working on dumb little girls like you. Do you really think he is going to run off with you and leave everything he loves. The only thing he loves about you is the fact that your different and younger then his wife.Make no mistake you will wear off and when you do he will make sure you are out of his house faster then you can open your legs.Your mother would be so ashamed if she knew what you were doing to this family who took you in. I hope someday someone like you comes into your life and sleeps with your husband then and only then will you know the kind of heart break you are going to cause his poor wife who did nothing to you but be your friend.With friends like you who needs enemies.
42 :
his eyes r ur heaven...but his manhood is sending u to hell
43 :
Something built on a lie will never last
44 :
Sweetie, you should get the heck out of there as soon as possible. It's a bad situation if the mom finds out what's going on. If you really love him and want to leave with him then move out and let him deal with his situation. After that you can be with him.
45 :
wow. he'll cheat on you eventually. and what about his son? do either of you think of what is best for him? you deserve eachother, for sure, but wife and son deserve so much better.
46 :
No, you are not a wh*re but you are a naughty naughty girl.
47 :
If I were you, I would definitely get out of there away from him and that situation! He is a total jerk for treating his wife and son that way. He would probably do the same to you eventually! You don't really know this guy and are just loving him because of the sex. Sex is an instant way of intimacy between two people, but should never be the only factor in deciding to be with someone! How well does he know you? Does he know all of your favorite things? Does he know what you want to do with your future? Does he know what makes you mad? He probably doesn't and doesn't care either. He just likes the sex. He married his wife for a reason, not because she was his high school sweetheart but because he loved her. He's probably gotten in a rut and then you come along and he's taken advantage of the situation and of you. You need to take care of yourself and find someone who is going to be your best friend to be in love with, not a married guy who is doing you behind his wife's back! Open your eyes!!!!
48 :
You should pack your bags and leave. wtf is this for real?
49 :
I think this a terrible situation for the wife. How is she going to feel when her husband walks out on her and their son? Does she love him? If so she will be devestated. And is he going to provide for them? You cannot help falling in love, but if you are going to run off with this man, I hope that he will have the decency not to leave his wife and child high and dry without anything. And I hope also that he is going to really commit himself to you and not dump you when he tires of you. I hope that he really does love you as much as you love him.
50 :
yes u are.. sad but true.. but u can return and fix it. leave him , he has a family he has children he has a wife who has only helped to you.just think if you were that woman , what would you think about tht ??.
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